I was trying to think of a title for my post and I heard myself sigh, so there it is.

I am thinking of reworking my trip, and it is stressful. My mom and I are booked for a trip in Dec. at WL with deluxe dining during the FD promo. We really splurged on this trip; it's meant to be some quality time together and is particularly important to me b/c my mom has been very ill this past year--she is well enough to travel as of now. But now my husband is losing his job because his company is closing and I am thinking about reconfiguring the trip to save money. I'm still planning to go--this trip is for important reasons and we already bought our plane tickets.
I'm thinking about going with the Swan and ditching the dining plan altogether. We may also change many of our dining plans to save some money too. I just don't know. Of course, choosing a moderate or value that still has FD available could also be aN option. This time, I really wanted interior corridors, though, because it's likely one or the other of us may need to rest and it would be nice for the other to have a lobby or relaxing area right nearby the room or to grab to-go food if the weather is inclement and and my mom needs to stay in the room for a few hours or half day. This was a big part of my choosing WL. Also, the dining is very important to us--it's the highlight of the trip particularly because I am gluten free. We are looking forward to trying some signature restaurants; we've never done them on previous trips.
I know I can make some changes to make this trip more affordable, which is great. But it is stressful, as I know my fellow DISers understand. I already painstakingly planned ever ADR based on our WL location, the deluxe dining plan, etc. And I am/was super excited to stay at WL. DH says to leave things as they are planned since we already budgeted for the trip, but that by budget was before knowing we would soon be a one-income family.

Ugh. I am just worried that with the economy the way it is, finding a new job could take my husband longer than we would plan for and it seems wreckless to spend on an extravagant vacation even though we've saved for emergencies. So I have about three weeks or less before final payment is due to play mental chess and figure out all the options and price points for amending our vacation, possibly canceling, or taking a leap and leaving it as is.

I am exhausted just thinking about re-planning this trip.