I do feel sad for folks like you because of the quote above.

WDW is a very expensive vacation and many folks don't get to visit more than 1 once. We're going with my brother and his family (of 4) and even with my wife and I covering their room and
MVMCP tickets they'll still spend close to 5K.........that's a lot of money!
Unfortunately refurbs are always a dark cloud hanging over any WDW vacation. It really stinks when its major rides like BTMRR and RnR..........alas what can you do but work around it. WDW is more than a couple of rides.............it's an experience. Take it all in..............in the end you're vacation can still be magical if you look to make it magical
Have a wonderful and magical vacation!
Doug