I'm set to sail on Sept 11 on the Western Caribbean for 7 days and I have a few questions related to my kids. I have twins that will almost be 3 when we sail. Specifically, they will be 6 weeks short of 3 when we sail. They are both fully potty trained and attend day care 5 days a week so they know how to handle themselves in a room full of kids. On occasion, they do cry for the first 5 minutes after we leave and then start to play. I noticed that the Disney information says that they will allow younger children in their club if they are 1 month short of the minimal age (mine will be1 1/2 months ). Will I still be able to let them into the Oceaneers Club? I've run a few searches and it seems that some have had their 2 1/2 yr olds in the club so I'm hoping that they're not too strict. Also, would I be able to hang out with them for the first 1/2 hour to get them used to the place or would they frown on Mommy hanging out with the kids and getting in the way? We are actually on deck 5. Not sure if that's a mistake but it's convenient for the kids. My kids are not the most well-behaved at dinner. I try but the occasional tantrum occurs and they aren't the neatest little guys. Something will most likely be spilled if I'm not hawking over them. Upscale for us these days, is a coffee house or family restaurant. They do ok, but a family restaurant is not the same as the dining room on a cruise. I would hope that the waiters have seen it all. I'm also hoping that we get our own table since I don't want to torture any guests. We have requested our own table and early seating. Any advice, tips or answers to my questions would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you!