@WDW_fan_in_TX Try not to compare your own situation to someone else's, although I know that is hard to do.
@ruadisneyfan2 is so great at encouraging new folks on this thread by sharing her debt story and how she overcame it.
Whatever you income is, and your non-negotiable bills are, is where you start in laying out a personal budget for yourself. It doesn't matter how much or little you have, you need to examine your own spending habits and see where there is some fat that can be trimmed. The excess you can take away from groceries, restaurants, new clothes, vacations etc. is what you have to work with to establish a small emergency fund and then start chipping away at your debt. I used Dave Ramsey, and he advocates for getting rid of your smallest debt first, with all the extra "fat" you can purge from your budget. He suggests we eat rice and beans and beans and rice in order to get some extra money to funnel to debt. While not doing that literally, I did find that cutting out most eating out and organizing my cook-from-home meals more than I had been doing, did allow me to get some extra money to start my emergency fund and then start attacking my smallest debt.
It definitely is doable; please don't give up. You will end up feeling so proud of getting your finances (large or small) in better control. It will be a load off your shoulders once you are underway with your own plan. I know this from personal experience!
You do have to be very honest with yourself, though, about where your current spending is going. One thing I did for a month or two before starting to make a budget was to just track in a notebook every penny I spent during the pay period--down to the Diet Coke I got from a vending machine or the 50 cent newspaper I picked up at the gas station. Doing this will help you see where you are spending too much or too carelessly. Later on, you will be able to afford more "extras" but right now it is time to cut back so that you can get out of the weeds.
Another thing I did once was to make an appointment with a bank official at the physical bank where I had accounts. I presented him my income and my debts and asked what he suggested. He gave me the lesson of "MMM" which stands for Minimize, Minimize, Maximize for debt repayment (which is the Dave Ramsey method, as well, that I learned about later).
There are people who can counsel you for free, books you can check out and read, articles you can find online, and this group right here on the Budget Board who will help you get going. If you want to turn things around, you can! It doesn't matter how much you make or how much you owe--you can turn the ship around so that you lessen stress along with lessening debt and begin to have hope that you can carve out more of the life you want for yourself.
Good luck! Please don't be afraid to post, and you never have to use real numbers. You can talk in terms of % or in terms of just what you are working on now (DR's first baby step is to save $1000 for an emergency fund). You can talk about what budget category you want to spend less in--whatever you like. No way do you have to reveal more than you are comfortable with--at all!