lots of gaslighting on here, hope MODS keep an eye on that
This forum and particular thread has been very balanced and well.moderated with a broad spectrum of stakeholders and users, including parents, adults with disabilities and ranging from physical to mental to combos of both.
We are here to help each other and move forward to get to 'yes' with a common thing that we all love and care about.....Disney.
Do we squabble? Absolutely. Do we use not the best and right terms or tone? Very often.
What really matters is we care to respond and help get each other understand the reason, the process, and hopefully get to successfully experience Disney to the best of our capabilities.
To your concerns, I believe the last several pages folk have tried to guide and help, including our moderators...gaslighting is not the intent.
I do believe you are going to have a difficult call with the accessibility team this coming week.
My suggestion would be to formulate your needs and write them down. One cue card for each issue and an example of how you deal with them routinely and how that would fail if you are to utilize a standard Disney queue.
The team will give you the space and time to go through the issues.
Be prepared that they will probably offer up AQR as the reasonable accommodation. You can go over the issues of that accommodation for sure, but you will end up more frustrated like here and may spiral further to saying things that may lead to a disconnect and notation.
There are reports of folk being denied, trying AQR and other options the CM offer at the ride, and if they fail, reengage with the disability team via the QR code while in the park to reassess the situation.
Suggestion. Don't burn your bridges unless you don't want to get to your ultimate goal....successfully touring Disney.
We are here to help...just like the CMs