I saw this thread, and just had to respond. Last Christmas (must have been in the holiday mood)I decided to surprise my family (DW , DD8, and DMIL) with a 2005 post Thanksgiving week at WDW. DW, found out about it in January, and DD found out in February. It was still a secret for DMIL. In June I finally asked her if she would like to go to WDW after Thanksgiving? She said, No! At the Labor Day picnic it came up again. She still said no. Last night I layed out the whole surprise, explained that this was a gift for her, and the non refundable tickets were purchased. She said - No. See if I pack my lunch for a year to save money for her present again!