i just found this thread & it made me start thinking back...(enter a flashback sequence here, with smoke...)
back on '03, i decided we needed a good family vacation. my son was entering kindergarten in sept., so ladies you know what that means...NO MORE DAYCARE EXPENSE!!! i thought i was being clever by taking the $$ that we we saving now that day care was over & booked a vacation to disney for that january. i figured i wouldn't say anything & make it a HUGE surprise for DH & DS for xmas. i had to tell someone, so all of my customers knew about the surprise. (oh, i do nails by the way) they all thought this was very special of me to plan it & not tell them. (who wants to let a 5 year old know anything about disney that far before the trip anyway!

) i even called his work to arrange the time off with his boss because they aren't suposed to take time off then!
FLASH FORWARD:
it's now thanksgiving & DH starts talking about $$. "i'm think i'd like to buy a new welder this xmas with some of the extra $$ we've been saving...etc..."
WELL, as you can imagine i would very quickly change the subject! he'd been asking about extra $$ for 2 more weeks when he finally asked the question, "are you ok? is something going on i should know about?" MY HEART SANK!!!!!! so now it was coming out of the bag! i told him not to worry, i wasn't on drugs or anything. that made it WORSE! he then thought i was leaving him & getting an appt. somewhere! i told him, "murder maybe...divorce, no way!" so at that point i had to tell him the surprise.
after all the moaning & groaning about how he should have left it alone so he too could be surprised, we had a great time! it was still fun keeping it from DS until xmas morning!
Just be CAREFUL how you hide the surprise...or people will think there are other motives behind a little $$ shifting !!
