I know the story..and I know the area where this occured WELL.We have a business near by.
I know the story too, and you've explained it well.
Being in a situation in real course of duty can not be simulated in the police academy......I do know one thing, this is not about police brutality, or rogue cops or racism, its about a bad bad night where a young man lost his life before it really started, thats sad, for everyone involved.
Like I stated before my husband spent his NYPD career in this precinct and he talked with some of the guys he used to work with and they all said the same thing based on responding to that same exact club on different occasions, that someone hanging out that late at that specific club is not a good boy.
That said, good for you that you believe everything your husband tells you. I don't!
Ya know, you cannot believe everything someone tells you....women have that intuition - you know when your kids or your husband are telling you a story.
But as far as work goes, I believed what he said, why shouldn't I? My DH has more Cop Of The Month awards than any guy he knows to prove any stories he's told me. Those Cop Of The Month awards include community awards which are given out by the Community for the work the police officers are doing to Protect the community, protect the lives and well-being of the hard-working good citizens of the community.
Our friends are all honest men just like him, who don't make a good salary (especially for living on Long Island!!!!)
and they do get shot at by the bad guys (yes, they do) but that's the job they took. My husband, as I'm sure most cops, have made friends with those who live in the community and they listen to what's going on, hear their voice, and try to make a difference for the people who they are paid to protect. Of course, in every job there's always some slime ball....but we're not talking about slime ball cops here - unlike the Amadou Dialo case.
But when it comes down to it and you're fighting for your community, essentially it doesn't come down to race - black or white....It comes down to, okay, am I gonna stick to the side of other hard-working law-abiding citizens that reside with me in my community, or am I gonna stick with those who have chosen the other path, those with criminal records who are not remorseful for what they have done, those who continually break the law?
I tell my kids all the time, you break the law, I will not support you because you know better. Growing up when friends got busted, did I support them? No way....They knew Exactly what they were doing - they broke the law and they paid for it. I don't care if you're my daughter, my mother, my husband, if you did something you know you should not have done, I Will Not Support You. I know this is harsh, but I grew up a certain way and I can disconnect in a heartbeat.
I can understand if a truly innocent man was murdered in cold blood by a police officer, (putting my flame suit on) but he was not truly innocent.....Guilty by association (that's what I teach my kids). The law calls it Acting In Concert. You can be as innocent as a newborn baby, but if a crime is committed and you're with the person who committed the crime, you are guilty of Acting In Concert and the law punishes you accordingly.
The undercover heard one of the perps talking about getting his gun and that's what set that nights' events in motion.
So even if Sean Bell Did not have a gun, Did not have a record, his friends who did have records and according to the undercover were about to appropriate a gun, and an Undercover was purposely struck by the car he was riding in, he is, unfortunately, guilty by association. Had Sean Bell not died of his injuries (or even have been shot) and no other men were injured, he most likely would have been charged with acting in concert.
I'm not an A.D.A., but I am a court reporter who worked these courts, so I'm just telling you this based on my experiences. I might be wrong, but I might be right.
In any case, Al Sharpton should REally stand up for the black community and fight black-on-black crime as well, but there's no glory in that, is there
