3rd option is a combo of both....go to Captain's Grille at the Yachtclub.
They do a great job, have homemade clam chowder and the best crab cakes and caesar salad that i've ever had...plus they have a crab leg entree..29.99 and a HUGE plate of legs.
Last fall (if they still have it now) they also offered a 3 course meal with app, entree, dessert from a select list. it's about 28 dollars OOP or is 1 dining credit.
This was our favorite place during our trip.
Plus, if you have kids, they have a fun dessert here just like kona has the kona cone.
Cap. Grille has a kid's kabob dessert of marshmallows, brownie and rice crispy treats and fruit....i really thought it looked GREAT.
so cap grille will give you the crab leg option....along with a waiter serving you and more quiet meal...best of both worlds.