EDIT TO ADD: But from your write up, I'm not sure this is the only issue right now...and if it's not, I wouldn't add to them - I'd try to solve the current ones 1st...
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EDIT TO ADD: But from your write up, I'm not sure this is the only issue right now...and if it's not, I wouldn't add to them - I'd try to solve the current ones 1st...
You answered your own question. Why would you want him miserable in his own home? Then rub it in more by bringing in another pet like he doesn’t matter.I understand what you’re saying but if it was up to my husband we would NEVER have had any pets
He’s miserable with the 2 we have now
I understand what you’re saying but if it was up to my husband we would NEVER have had any pets
He’s miserable with the 2 we have now
If it was a long term thing that you had never had ANY pets and you had always really wanted one, I could maybe see it as being fair to compromise for your needs and get a pet. But you already have had pets (even when he didn't want them).I understand what you’re saying but if it was up to my husband we would NEVER have had any pets
He’s miserable with the 2 we have now
This is a thing I never understand when people talk about pets. "Taking care of it" (feeding, litter box) is not the full extent of living with a pet in the house. I don't think he doesn't want the cat just because he's too lazy to feed it. There's whining, scratching furniture, hair, dander, contamination of the kitchen counters, the smell of the litter, possible spraying or health problems, etc. Even if he's not expected to take care of it, it may still affect his enjoyment of his daily life and his comfort in his own home.If he doesn't have a good reason, except that he doesn't like cats, and the rest of the family wanted it, I'd totally be getting it. As long as he is not expected to take care of it at all...
Well yeah but it still costs money unless you get them on a free weekendNope on two fronts.
1) That is something that should be a joint decision.
2) I don't buy pets, I adopt them from animal shelter
They have been overrun here since the pandemic started. A lot of their adoptable cats have been in foster care since they had no room. My daughter fostered a cat for 3 months until they had room for him. The shelter provided all the food and litter and medical care. He had a wound on his tail. They have been doing a lot of "Clear the Shelter Events" too and all cats over a certain age are free all the time.Well yeah but it still costs money unless you get them on a free weekend
Our kitty was from a cat rescue/shelter (they only have cats) and the adoption fee was $130. That included neuter, his initial shots, as well as a voucher for a follow up visit at a vet for a booster shot (which would have cost us $55 for that).
In this case the OP wasn't saying they were going to a breeder and 'buying' that way so it could just as easily be a shelter or rescue