I'd look at your schedule, where you are going to be, which characters you were interested in seeing, and work from there.
For instance, if you are staying in the Epcot resort area, Cape May might be a great choice. If you are staying at the Poly, Ohana might be a great choice. If you want to get in to an early breakfast on your AK day, Breakfastasaurus. If dinner works better into your plans than breakfast, Garden Grill, Chef Mickeys or LTT are your choices.
We've taken our last couple of trips with little kids in tow - too little to handle their own buffet plates - and think Family Style or Plated is wonderful. The next trip they will be six and seven and we may be branching back out .