Then you've never been in "Stitch's Great Escape"
For some reason my DD actually likes that one. She is probably the only person I know that does! It's Tough to be a Bug is another thing though- no crying, but she is not a fan!
DD begged to see It's Tough to Be a Bug when she was 4 or 5. This is the kid who screams when a gnat gets near her so I knew it wouldn't go well, but she likes the A Bug's Life Movie. I knew she wouldn't like it and warned her, but said "Fine, if you really want to see it we will do it, but just remember I didn't ask you do this one so don't complain to me." (That comment was directly related to the fact that I bribed her onto Splash Mountain and she hated it and I heard about it for days). She happily bounced into the theatre. As we exited she looked at us and said "Well, I'm NEVER doing that again". We go every year and she relented last October at age 9 and said she wanted to try it again. Yep- still hated it.
OP, I would let her do whatever she wants. I have also bribed DD onto things she was scared of, but that I thought she would like. Tough to be a Bug and Stitch are not rides, but they can be scary. I would proceed with caution on those two. As far as rides, TOT is one that can be pretty scary, but, our last trip we met a 4 year old girl who loved it and who had made her family ride it over and over so you never know. It's just hard to say what she will like or not like until she actually tries them. Dinosaur at AK can be pretty scary for the younger set. I personally don't care much for it myself. My DD likes Space Mountain, which completely surprised me as she hated Big Thunder, but she hates Splash which I thought she would love. Even stranger, turns out she likes Splash at
Disneyland, but not Disneyworld. She says it is because of the different configurations of the logs, and on the big drop she doesn't feel secure and feels like she is going to fall out of the one at WDW. I think it is just kind of a trial and error thing. At age 5, one of my DD's absolute favorite rides was Star Tours. Since she was not real big on thrill rides, I had told her ahead of time that it would feel like she was going places, but she really was in a room that was bouncing around. That made her feel really secure and she loved it. DH encouraged her to try the easy side of Mission Space at that age since she loved Star Tours and she loved it. I had totally avoided that one for years thinking it would make me sick, and she is the one who begged me to ride it with her. To my surprise, I really liked it too. The easy side to me very much feels like Star Tours, which I love. I would not push your DD to ride TOT, EE, Dinosaur or to see Bug or Stitch, unless she wants to do those. If she wants to try them, then I would let her. As far as everything else, I would encourage her to give it a try. You never know what she might love!
Have a great trip!!!