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Thanks for all the advice and support guys. I'll keep you updated.
Nat - Pregnancy really isn't that bad. It's the delivery I'm concerned about. I'm going tothe Epideral Man.
I think the thing to remember is EVERYONE is different. Some love being pregnant while others hate it. Some people have difficult pregnancies but easy deliveries (me), there really is no rhyme or reason. I try to stand clear of the "advice train" because it seems that everyone has some story to tell and how things "should" be done. My only words of comfort are to take everything with a grain of salt because it may or may not apply to you and only you can determine what does apply and how to handle it. This is true of pregnancy advise and parenting advise. Other than hitting the crack pipe while your pregnant while chugging a beer or beating your children, there is no "wrong" way. I have told many a friend who is concerned about too much of something or they are craving something.....having kids is a crapshot and you have the luck of the draw. If some drug addict can use and abuse her whole pregnancy and have a "normal" child then that extra cup of coffee isn't going to make a big difference. It helps to put things into perspective a little some times.
Motherhood is an experience I personally would not give up. It isn't for everyone and I respect that. I actually commend those that know it is not for them and make a conscious decision to not have them. It is a pain I will never forget nor will I candy coat it by saying "you forget it" - you don't!, but having said that I would go through it again in a heartbeat! It is the single most rewarding "job" I have ever had and an amazing process to see how a child is the size of something basically unseeable and the progression to feeling those little kicks, seeing the ultrasounds, and then a newborn babe. It is unbelievable how much your child changes in that 1st year from a cute little lump of love to an interactive human being that responds to your voice, touch, etc.
Malibu, I was afraid of delivering too - I think it's completely normal to be concerned with how "this thing" is going to get out of there



