i have no reason to change anything.
i did change a grammatical error that i caught as soon as i posted the very first time.
i'm perfectly fine with all of this; the criticism... and the nice support. i know what kind of mom i am. i know what kind of kid i have. i know that no one was there to actually see it play by play, and i have no recap available. you just have to go on my word of what happened. my kid is a little smartmouth with attitude (sometimes), but she's also incredibly smart, talented, sweet and cute to boot.
i will ALWAYS take up for her over anyone else. she's not perfect, and by no means do i treat her as a snowflake. i do not let her roll over me and i do not let her pull the punches. i am strict, but fair. i also know to pick my battles. i'm a hillbilly, but not a redneck. i try to refrain from showin' my fanny even if she is hellbent on doing so herself.
to those who want to speculate and judge my parenting... have at it. i'm opinionated, too, but i do try really hard not to be presumptuous.

thanks.