I have very mixed feelings about Cali Grill. The atmosphere is great, and it's become a tradition at our yearly "meet" trip with our CIFs (Creepy Internet Friends

). Because of that, I love it. But I am not all ga ga about the food. It's pretty good. Some things (flatbread, sushi if you like it) are really good. Others (yes, the steak) are just okay. And not worth the price you pay, IMHO. I also agree that Wishes from Main Street is way better than from the Contemporary. Or from the Poly beach, for that matter.
I am impressed that you attempted to take your picky eater there! I would never attempt it with my kids. I have honestly never seen a thing on that menu (including the kid's menu) that they would eat.
Sorry for your card troubles. I have a feeling this isn't the last we'll be hearing about them....