Nancyg56
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Good Morning! I made a homey hamburg gravy thing with mushrooms onions and peas over buttered noodles. A glass of red wine and all was perfect!
Jen- Bud has talked to the Hospice nurse as well as the social worker. The SW talked to his Mom while we were there the last meeting and he agreed that she knew what she did not want. Her condition has gone downhill since and she really does need more services. I am concerned about her pain management as she gets worse but Buddy just cannot understand that Hospice does not mean death warrant. He is now questioning everything and while I understand that this is in opposition to what he thinks is appropriate he is dead bang wrong. His Mom has a living will. She also has COPD and I know where this is going and without morphine and ativan it is not going to be pretty. I am going with him today and Marisa will watch the girls. If he backpedals on this I have told him that he has to come up with a plan for her because I will not let her suffer. I also think that we need to get an additional aide for her because she is beginning to require more help than the facility can absorb. The lawyer said Hospice will advice and we can go from there.
PIO- lovely meal!
Lauren- good to see you! How are you and the boys doing?
Kim- I smelled bacon too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think leftovers from last night for dinner. I did not get over to see Bud's mom last night and this afternoon will be tight with the girls so I want to go later on.
Jen- Bud has talked to the Hospice nurse as well as the social worker. The SW talked to his Mom while we were there the last meeting and he agreed that she knew what she did not want. Her condition has gone downhill since and she really does need more services. I am concerned about her pain management as she gets worse but Buddy just cannot understand that Hospice does not mean death warrant. He is now questioning everything and while I understand that this is in opposition to what he thinks is appropriate he is dead bang wrong. His Mom has a living will. She also has COPD and I know where this is going and without morphine and ativan it is not going to be pretty. I am going with him today and Marisa will watch the girls. If he backpedals on this I have told him that he has to come up with a plan for her because I will not let her suffer. I also think that we need to get an additional aide for her because she is beginning to require more help than the facility can absorb. The lawyer said Hospice will advice and we can go from there.
PIO- lovely meal!
Lauren- good to see you! How are you and the boys doing?
Kim- I smelled bacon too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think leftovers from last night for dinner. I did not get over to see Bud's mom last night and this afternoon will be tight with the girls so I want to go later on.

Why didn't you WARN us first??!?!?

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