The legend in my area was a place called Flint's. They had a few places that seemed to never be open when I went by and I wasn't sure what the deal was. The final location closed in 2010, but the owners now operate in pop-ups.
https://sf.eater.com/2020/10/27/215...lady-flints-creole-soul-pop-up-oakland-legend
Another place is Everett & Jones with locations in Oakland, Berkeley, and Hayward. I used to eat from their pregame setup before Cal football games.
One I heard of but never went to was Big Nate's in San Francisco. It was owned by former Warriors player Nate Thurmond.
One I probably tried more than any other was at the Oakland Coliseum (also at the former Oracle Arena) called Ribs-N-Things. Haven't tried it in years and I'm not sure they're still there. I'd order their 3 beef ribs, which were huge. It would come with a side of potato salad. Dessert was extra, but they had peach cobbler or sweet potato pie.