Things I'm glad I did:
Had a private ceremony on the cruise line. It was so romantic and special. Disney worked hard to make it special, even if there were some communication errors along the way and a few mishaps the day of our VR. I loved our private ceremony!!!
I'm also glad we photographed ourselves. Yes, corney as it sounds, it's hit or miss with the cruise line photographers. I am so glad we didn't waste our money.
I am also really, really glad we did our MK and Epcot photoshoots. I love these pics. Not all of them are great, but the experience alone was worth it. It was amazing, magical, and again private. Something that my DH and I got to share with one one else to ruin it. Plus, seeing Disney like that was totally worth it. I loved it and would tell any bride to find room for it in their budget.
Also, I am glad that we splurged on a horse drawn carriage. Another highlight for us. To bad it wasn't Cindy's, but it was fun. Plus our guests all got a chance to enjoy it as well, so it was money well spent.
Glad I did my own hair and make-up. I've seen some amazing hair and make-up on the other brides, but I just couldn't justify the extra expense. I think I did pretty good with mine.
Also glad I didn't spend another $200 on flowers for the MK shoot. I think my home-made ones look great. Lord knows I spend enough money by that point any way!
Wish I Hadn't:
Our at home reception venue!! We worked so hard to pick this place only to have it fail on us. I think part of the disaster of the whole day was that they book 3 weddings on top of each other while charging us each for the entire day. I still don't know if it was an error, or if the city was being greedy and crooked, but the time issue really threw everything off. I think I could have dealt with a few things going wrong, but this was just crazy.
Ordered a cake from Publix. This was also a disaster. It was NOTHING like our order. When we went back to find out what happened, turns out they didn't even have our order in the system. It was just stupid. I wish that Dan had just taken the time to make our cake. It would have been 400 x's better and not have melted everywhere.
I also wish I hadn't put so many details into our at home reception. No one noticed and it just made me mad that I worked so hard for no one to notice.

But I had fun making the stuff.
This is where I seriously debate whether we should have done something at Disney itself. But I wouldn't want to change my cruise VR for anything. I guess it's just back to the whole venue issue.
Other than that, I am pretty much over it. I know it sounds terrible, but I can't go back and change it, so I am going to have to accept it for what it is and move on. I love my husband and my children, ok - and Disney

, and we got to celebrate our union together. That in itself was special. I wouldn't take that back for anything. I am so thankful that my dh is as committed to me as he is. Many people never get to experience that. I am a lucky girl in many ways and glad that I got to celebrate my love with him.