Hello Connie,
I'm certain you have enough information from this thread to have already come to a decision on the best choice for your family, but here's a little more food for thought (just for the heck of it):
Starwood manages both the Swan and Dolpin AND if you are a Starwood Preferred Guest, (free for the joining) you can capitalize on some very attractive membership benefits including earning points towards your next stay, upgrades to preferred rooms/suites, late check-outs, etc.
They also offer additional discounts to the WDW resorts, such as an Entertainment Card 50% discount off rack rates AND a terrific discount for teachers, government employees and nurses. If you or your husband qualify for one of these discounts, you can book a standard view room for $129.00 per night, lake view $154, resort view $164.00, resort view with balcony $174.00 and Club (concierge) Level for $210.00 - - not too shabby for a deluxe minus the monorail.
The Swan and Dolphin also have boats to Epcot/MGM. IMO, it offers the best proximity in WDW and LBV. You may even get a balconied room with unobstructed views of Epcot, BW, BC/YC and Illuminations!
Hope that helps. Have a great time wherever you choose to stay...