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<font color=darkcoral>Proud mommy, wife and WDW fa
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- Aug 17, 1999
I agree with ChrisAlli and the others, get off line and go talk to her now.
Here is the other thread from the Op who was going to stay at the ASMu with her sis but longed for a deluxe instead.swilshire said:OK ... can somebody find the other thread that is probably from the sister? I remember reading one recently where the sister wanted to change resorts and was afraid to hurt the other sister's feelings. The vote was split, but most felt that she should switch resorts if she really wanted to and that it's not a bad thing to stay in separate resorts.
You can still do fun things together. You can also enjoy your time apart.
I've been in similar situations where I've been disappointed that my in-laws didn't want to spend as much time with my family as I had hoped (particularly when I was footing the bill) but life goes on.
Please don't let this ruin your vacation or your family relationship. Life's too short.
Sheila
CharlesTD said:I would say that this is a suprise for you and your family and if they haven't said anything even when paying them it is a great gesture on thier part. They know you can't afford those accomodations and they can and they want to splurg and give you guys a treat staying in a resort you may otherwise never stay in. I know we have done this for family also they weren't hurt by it but very suprised and thanked us. Just take it for what it is a nice upgrade and a very great gesture from your sister and BIL.
Honeybug said:Charles they are staying at the Poly and we are staying at the POP. We have paid for this trip. It is not that we couldn't afford to stay at Poly really. It is that we did not intend on making this trip that kind of trip. We kinda all agreed that it would be a "cheap and fun, last minute, let's go" kind of vacation.
Honeybug said:my husband to get home from work. I am going to have him call my bil to get the truth. I know if I called her now it would get ugly. I want this to be a family issue not just a sister issue. Plus, I was up all night thinking about this and got very little sleep. I am a wreck.
Honeybug said:my husband to get home from work. I am going to have him call my bil to get the truth. I know if I called her now it would get ugly. I want this to be a family issue not just a sister issue. Plus, I was up all night thinking about this and got very little sleep. I am a wreck.
Honeybug said:my husband to get home from work. I am going to have him call my bil to get the truth. I know if I called her now it would get ugly. I want this to be a family issue not just a sister issue. Plus, I was up all night thinking about this and got very little sleep. I am a wreck.
Honeybug said:my husband to get home from work. I am going to have him call my bil to get the truth. I know if I called her now it would get ugly. I want this to be a family issue not just a sister issue. Plus, I was up all night thinking about this and got very little sleep. I am a wreck.
Honeybug said:My sister and I have had lots of issues in the past. Before I talk to my sister I want to make sure this isn't a surprise from her husband or something he did by having my husband talk to my bil.
Lesson learned NEVER HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS PLAN OR BOOK YOUR VACATION!