OceanAnnie
I guess I have a thing against
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I'm sorry. You want to contort an issue to fit a pattern that does not exist.
We will not see eye to eye on this issue. I will agree to disagree with you.

I'm sorry. You want to contort an issue to fit a pattern that does not exist.
We will not see eye to eye on this issue. I will agree to disagree with you.![]()
Fine with me. Your kids can home and play video games. Mine will go volunteer at the hospital. Best of luck to ya.![]()
We have it here along with a Senior Service project and I don't mind it. But for most students, it is just a nuisance and they will find the lamest things to get their requirements in. The Senior Project is the biggest joke - while some kids take advantage of it and organize some very cool things, others just stick a collection box outside a store or have a relative sign off on something no one can confirm.
However, I also feel if it weren't a requirement, there wouldn't be the volunteer opportunities around for the kids that actually WANT to do community service but are too shy.
Please it isn't the same at all and you know it. Let me know when you have to work with a volunteer who has no desire to be there.
That's easy. I got plenty of those during Disney's Give a Day Get a Day. I just didn't let them volunteer. So sorry, too bad so sad, we just don't have any opportunities for someone who wants me to sign off and commit FRAUD when you didn't do anything but want me to give you something because your sister-in-law's-first-cousin actually does volunteer with us.
With teenagers, for a class? You send them home with a smile "I get that you don't want to be here. Tell you what, I'll tell your folks you just weren't any good at this. You can find another opportunity that suits you better. 'kay, thanks!" And send them off without their form signed or signed for the 30 minutes they were painful to have around.
See, that's the thing. They're not OUR kids. We don't have to have them around when they're being pains. We can (and will) tell them to shove off. In the nicest way possible, of course.![]()
We have it here along with a Senior Service project and I don't mind it. But for most students, it is just a nuisance and they will find the lamest things to get their requirements in. The Senior Project is the biggest joke - while some kids take advantage of it and organize some very cool things, others just stick a collection box outside a store or have a relative sign off on something no one can confirm.
However, I also feel if it weren't a requirement, there wouldn't be the volunteer opportunities around for the kids that actually WANT to do community service but are too shy.
A huge, emphatic, NO!
I first heard of such a concept on these very boards. I was absolutely floored they could force such a thing only to find out they do just that here too!!![]()
I view forced "community service" as a punishment and not appropriate for kids in school. If they want to have a community service CLASS where the school arranges everything and it is done during school hours, I could live with that. But to put the onus on already busy kids to find a place to volunteer, get themselves there and back, etc. is way out of line IMNSHO.
If people WANT to volunteer? More power to them. But it should not be forced. That is called work. And students shouldn't have to work for free or not graduate.
If you're going to take the line of thought young people shouldn't be forced to volunteer, then they shouldn't be forced to do anything.
1) They shouldn't be forced by their parents to go to church. They should have the liberty to choose.
2) They shouldn't be forced to get summer jobs during high school. They should have the liberty to choose.
3) They shouldn't be forced to do chores around the house. They should have the liberty to choose.
Or let me guess what you will say.. each parent gets to decide what to force their children to do. So when it benefits the parents, they will force the children to do whatever. But when it benefits society at large, how dare they!! Oh the outrage.
If you're going to take the line of thought young people shouldn't be forced to volunteer, then they shouldn't be forced to do anything.
1) They shouldn't be forced by their parents to go to church. They should have the liberty to choose.
2) They shouldn't be forced to get summer jobs during high school. They should have the liberty to choose.
3) They shouldn't be forced to do chores around the house. They should have the liberty to choose.
Or let me guess what you will say.. each parent gets to decide what to force their children to do. So when it benefits the parents, they will force the children to do whatever. But when it benefits society at large, how dare they!! Oh the outrage.
You really are missing the point, this has nothing to do with "not wanting (our) kid's to do something for society". You accused a pp of being obtuse, but where I'm sitting, you are the one being so.
Bottom line is that if public schools wanted to institute a community service requirement for graduation, they would be within their legal rights to do so. And I would stand up and commend them for it. About time the young generation gives back instead of just taking.
Bottom line is that if public schools wanted to institute a community service requirement for graduation, they would be within their legal rights to do so. And I would stand up and commend them for it. About time the young generation gives back instead of just taking.
Don't assume that if the school doesn't mandate it that kids aren't volunteering.
No, the bottom line is that you still don't seem to get it.
I get it clearly, I think it's you who refuses to understand that if a school decides to institute this policy, your kids will be at the food bank getting their hours done.
Most aren't.
Most aren't.