No one is taking advantage of the system by trying to give their child the best start in school they can.
Have you had a child close to the cutoff?
No, well, then until you do, you really don't know how that will affect your child.
Since I happen to have 4 kids who have very late birthdays, who would of started kindergarten at 4, this is something I have actually had to deal with.
Have you talked to your principal and gotten their thoughts on this, because, I have. Have you talked to kindergarten teachers and gotten their thoughts on this, because I have. HOw about older grade teachers, because I did that too.
I honestly only ran into ONE single educator who said to put my child in at 4 (a high school teacher). Every single other educator we talked to (we talked to many) said to wait a year.
My child is not learning disabled, not behind, but at only 4 she did not posess the maturity level of most of the kids in her class.
Was some of that because she has been sheltered, probably, we happen to be fairly strict about what our kids see and hear, and do. (no hannah montana, no spounge bob, I could go on and on) I gurantee my child could of handled the work load had she gone at 4 to kindergarten. But, that was not my concern, my concern was making a positive stepping stone to school so she learned to love school. I think if we had pushed her into school at 4 that love for school would not come as fast, or as hard as she loves it now.
She was slightly socially immature, is not up on all the things kids are these days in kindergarten, and had a speech delay, she still napped, and went to bed at 7. I think jumping into a full day 5 days a week program would of pushed her over the edge.
What it comes down to is it is my child, my choice.