To be fair, we're exporting these aspects of our national culture to other countries. However, your point is well-taken and right on-target.
Funny, I do that, but the net result is zero: Yes, the place is busy so I know to expect a delay. However, again, the place is busy so I know the server is getting tipped by more people. Therefore, just tip based on the quality of the service you receive, and so the server gets a mediocre tip from a bunch of people instead of a great tip from a few people.
Wow, all I can say is I hope you are never at my table (though you would get great service regardless).
In reply to other comments from you, bicker, I agree that when a customer asks a Disney rep why the change in DDP gratuity, the customer rep should not give a reason, or give a generic reason like "inflation". That is the heart of this whole post.
Disney guest reps are blaming the change on servers. First off, even if this was true, they shouldn't say it. Secondly, it is exactly not true and completely false. Am I saying the customer rep should give the real reason? No. Should they blame the little man either? NO.