Thank you all for your kind words.
I am trying to hold myself together for my DH other DS14 and DD20. As well as his girlfriend who was siting in the passenger seat next to him, and is also pregnant (7 months). I am holding on to the fact that I will be able to hold his child, and try to be there like he would have wanted. It is so hard, being in pain and seeing the pain in others and know there isn't anything that can be done.
As for the driver that started the whole mess, I have been told that they plan on charging him with 2 counts of vehicular homicide, but apparantly that will take 6-8 weeks, I guess they are being very thorough with the investigation. They still have AJ in the ME's office in Anchorage, hopefully we can get him back down here to Kenai on Monday.
Again thank you for your thoughts and prayers, I appreciate being able to let go a little without worrying about causing more pain.