I would echo the casual don't go overboard approach. Without knowing how she'll feel about meeting you I wouldnt push too much. I don't know if context helps but I would look at it more as hanging out with a new friend instead of trying to impress a new person.
I also would veto the flowers for the first meeting. It seems like drawing more attention to this being a very special meeting instead of a more casual getting to know you. I also wouldn't tell an 11 year old that the flowers were because a gentleman never meets a pretty girl without flowers (not exactly creepy but also not something to say when first meeting someone in my opinion).
I also would veto the flowers for the first meeting. It seems like drawing more attention to this being a very special meeting instead of a more casual getting to know you. I also wouldn't tell an 11 year old that the flowers were because a gentleman never meets a pretty girl without flowers (not exactly creepy but also not something to say when first meeting someone in my opinion).