Longest night of my life -- and it's FINALLY over. UPDATE pg. 111

[VSL]

I would be both frantic and furious (jumping from being an anxious wreck to a ball of red-hot rage and anger!).

Just wanted to comment on this though:

I was reading their chat logs and the GF was telling DS that she's allowed to have boys spend the night (just turned 17!!! ).

I know I live in the UK and our cultures are a little different, but me and my friends were having mixed sleepovers and camp-outs from the age of about 12 here (I'm 21 now and the last time that happened was when I was about 15/16 - since then it has been BF's only staying over). From the other stuff you've said about her mom it does sound like she is a nut, but for some people it's just a normal part of growing up (I turned out fine, I promise!).

 

[hlbtimes2]

Sorry you are going thru this. Parenting is hard.

But, I have to ask, did you really expect him to get up and hurry home this morning? He's obviously having a good time, and he knows he's in trouble. He knows its the last fun he's going to have for a long time. Might as well enjoy a little more time before facing mom and dad.

 

[MosMom]

Try Zabasearch.com and search her mother's name for an address. I might call the police again and tell them he is still missing.

 

[Pooh93]

Considering there is a case here in the St. Louis area regarding a 17 year old missing boy that disappeared after a party and he's virtually vanished into thin air - car and all, I'd be keeping this young man very close to home and very busy. I'd have my own boot camp going! Don't you have some siding to be washed or a garage that needs to be cleaned out, grass that needs to be mowed! If he has all this energy to be running around all hours of the night, then there's no way I'd let him come home and crash into his bed for a long afternoon nap! to the parents!

 

[BeNJeNWaFFLe]

I am very sorry you are going through this. I would be worried sick.

If I did this to my mother, I wouldn't have a butt to sit on once I got home. Maybe I should offer up her services to you. Did I mention she has a black belt in tae kwon do?

I think one of those summer programs might do him some good. It will keep him working and show him that there is more to life than sneaking around your parents and going to parties.

Hopefully he gets home soon.

 

[VSL]

I'd have my own boot camp going! Don't you have some siding to be washed or a garage that needs to be cleaned out, grass that needs to be mowed! If he has all this energy to be running around all hours of the night, then there's no way I'd let him come home and crash into his bed for a long afternoon nap! to the parents!

I'm with you on that!

Hopefully, the OP's son has arrived home by now.

 

[Snowysmom]

I am sorry that you are going through this. Parenting teenagers is hazardous duty! I hope you have been able to get in touch with him by now. As a mother of 2 teen boys, I would be reading them the riot act, grounding them until 30, and loss of privileges if they ever tried anything like this. I don't think they understand the seriousness and possible danger of what they are doing. Please let us know how things are going. Take care.

 

[Cthia]

Marseeya, I hope your son is home now. I really hope he is honest with you about what he was doing last night and let him know how much he had worried you all night and day and there are consequences for his actions. He is going to need to earn your trust again which isn't going to be easy. I hope everything works out okay.

 

[Rajah]

I sure hope the lack of update here means he's home and being given the riot act!

 

[AprilShowers]

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I would probably want to kill him (after I found out he was ok)
Not judging here, just curious, why you haven't gone over to the house where he was supposed to be staying last night?
I know you went there last night, but why haven't you gone over there today?
All the waiting would drive me CRAZY!!!

 

[Marseeya]

Still nothing. I just keep hopping online to get my mind off this.

I've tried everything I can think of, including logging on to his AIM and messaging people, but they're ignoring me. NOBODY is answering their phones.

Regarding the place where we drove last night -- there was just nothing there. They gave us wrong address.

DH is leaving work early and we're going to the police.

 

[palmtreegirl]

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope he turns up safe and sound soon, so you can kick his butt.

 

[hentob]

DH is leaving work early and we're going to the police.

Yes, Sweetie, it is time to do this

Good luck

 

[foolishmortal]

I was going to insert a joke here, but I thought better as it is probably a little inappropriate at this time...Maybe later.


I hope you find him and get some answers QUICK!

 

[Cthia]

I can't imagine what you are going thru right now.

Can you call any of his friend's parents and have them talk to their kids to see if they know anything like where this GF lives, a phone number, something since they are refusing to answer their phones, etc.

Have you tried the house again of where he was suppose to sleepover? Is anyone home there? Do you have that address to go over there?

 

[sajetto]

DH is leaving work early and we're going to the police.

I'm so sorry Marseeya, I can't imagine what you're going through. Good luck

 

[MBeds]

I keep coming back to this thread to check to see if you have heard from him...
I can 't even imagine what you are going thru...
Hang in there..

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Still nothing. I just keep hopping online to get my mind off this.

I've tried everything I can think of, including logging on to his AIM and messaging people, but they're ignoring me. NOBODY is answering their phones.

Regarding the place where we drove last night -- there was just nothing there. They gave us wrong address.

DH is leaving work early and we're going to the police.

You Poor thing. I just hope and pray that he is safe and just making ANOTHER poor judgement call by not answering your phone calls.

I can't believe not one of the people you are trying to contact will answer you. That is just so wrong in so many ways.

 

[ericamanda01]

Sounds to me like they all know he's in serious trouble with you, he knows it too and he's scared to come home. He will eventually realize that he has to face the music and come home.

 

[jcsbama]

Still nothing. I just keep hopping online to get my mind off this.

I've tried everything I can think of, including logging on to his AIM and messaging people, but they're ignoring me. NOBODY is answering their phones.

Regarding the place where we drove last night -- there was just nothing there. They gave us wrong address.

DH is leaving work early and we're going to the police.

Who gave you the wrong address? The girls calling and telling you where your son was or the friend's dad? Can you go ahead and call the police and have them come to your house? That way, you'll be there if/when he comes home and you won't be inclined to kill him in front of the police. Since the friends are online and won't respond, how about calling and talking to their parents. Maybe you can get some info that way.