In Search of My Body - Not the One I Ate, VOL 7! Princesses? Nope, just us Goddesses!

[3DisneyKids]

Lisa? Explain!

 

[lisaviolet]

Erika,

I have important question for you. Laughing.

Okay - how do I explain. I need help with something.

Once a while back this woman went after you on a WISH thread talking about an infomercial program. I read the thread. And you gave it back to her and then left it. She fired back again. (Forgive me if you wouldn't want that posted here - but selfishly it's a perfect example of what I'm asking - and something tells me you wouldn't give a sh!t. If I'm wrong I'll edit.

So I need to know because I have to work on this part of myself. The thought process.

If you can remember would this be an instance where you stood your ground and purposely never went back to the thread as in conscious decision =.

OR

Stood your ground and just forgot to go back as in who cares.

OR

Went back - saw her next words - and just said "whatever" in your head. I'm stepping out her drama. Not going to engage her.

Thought process in a situation like that.

I know I'm making this complicated but I would like to know how you stop the drama of back and forth when someone is downing you. What does your brain say I mean.

Thank you - I've used this example but I mean in general.

 

[lisaviolet]

Lisa? Explain!

I have continuously shut off newfound sexuality (meaning flirtatious side) - newfound b/c I didn't really have it before - because I thought that it was wrong. Literally.

And it was yesterday that I realized that it's not healthy and that I was doing it. You're shutting off a part of your entire well being. And I didn't know I was doing it. No idea. It took a conversation where I said something and someone said, "What the he!! are you talking about - first you don't have control over it - and second it's normal." I was beyond perplexed. Like at forty two I was realizing something you should know as a teenager.

Yet I always thought that flirting was like joy in my head - for others. Always "for others" with me with everything. I just thought mine couldn't be for obvious reasons (or I assume obvious reasons).

And your story just made me very happy. And there it was - just my issue.

Exhaling. Are you sure you wanted to know? I'll try not to edit.

 

[AKASnowWhite]

soooo tired. must sleep

Mackenzie Phillips.....WHAT? That's just so messed up. Didn't see it. Don't think I want to.


E - on the soccer game! I bet your shins are screaming. Ice them. Advil. Take care of your hideous-Michigan-jersey-wearing self.

Lyz - I think I was wrong about Project Runway. I did see part of an episode once a couple weeks ago. I think. They were doing some challenge where the contestants had to design a dress for a model to wear to some cocktail party or something. Are you feeling better yet?

Dawn - congrats on the Silpada taking on a life of it's own. As for Treynor - yeah. Figuring out your educational goals is tough. For me the trick is to figure out a) what you are good at and b) what you like to do - then attempt to determine c) a viable career that combines the two.

Lisa - What's gotten into you? Up so early lately! Are you working out at that crazy god-foresaken hour or just "up"?

 

[lisaviolet]

And besides that - look at how a flirtatious comment brought a smile to your face.

I'm slowly learning. Compliments - from men including simple ones - have seemed like absolute attacks for most of my life. Like I need to cower - quickly. In fact, up to this year they were still making me physically ill. And I'm changing.

And I'll try not to edit.

Yes lurkers this is a weight loss thread.

 

[AKASnowWhite]

Great. Now the local news is going to have the Mackenzie Phillips story on.

Ack. I can feel myself getting sucked in by it now.

 

[lisaviolet]

soooo tired. must sleep

Mackenzie Phillips.....WHAT? That's just so messed up. Didn't see it. Don't think I want to.


E - on the soccer game! I bet your shins are screaming. Ice them. Advil. Take care of your hideous-Michigan-jersey-wearing self.

Lyz - I think I was wrong about Project Runway. I did see part of an episode once a couple weeks ago. I think. They were doing some challenge where the contestants had to design a dress for a model to wear to some cocktail party or something. Are you feeling better yet?

Dawn - congrats on the Silpada taking on a life of it's own. As for Treynor - yeah. Figuring out your educational goals is tough. For me the trick is to figure out a) what you are good at and b) what you like to do - then attempt to determine c) a viable career that combines the two.

Lisa - What's gotten into you? Up so early lately! Are you working out at that crazy god-foresaken hour or just "up"?

No Nancy. Today I worked out about six. As in evening. I like that time. This morning - I didn't have work - and I was up at six something. Don't know why.

May we both get a good sleep.

Dawn I was serious about wanting to know where would be your possiblities to move if you do one day. Where on the coast? Do you have some places in your head?

 

[3DisneyKids]

But Nancy, doesn't it help at all that I have more UCONN wear than Michigan apparel???

 

[AKASnowWhite]

But Nancy, doesn't it help at all that I have more UCONN wear than Michigan apparel???

Of course it helps! Don't tell my husband - but I've always hated that Michigan State green....

ok - off to watch the news and see what all the brewhaha is about M.P.

 

[3DisneyKids]

Lisa--as to the thread-drama question...

Yes, I remember that thread. And no, I don't care that you mention it here. Most of the folks here had read it also. And for those of you who didn't, I basically threw down with some twit over some stupid issue. But I didn't START by throwing down. I just stated my opinion and he (I think) totally took it the wrong way and went carnival ape crazy on my a$$.

Now, we all know that I am competitive, right? That's a given. So I dished some back. Then he came back at me again. And at this point, it was like "This is SO not worth my time." I could have given it back to him again, but I just realized that I didn't give a f--- about him, thus didn't care what he thought, and certainly wasn't going to waste my time typing it all out. And honestly, I felt like I "won" because I was able to just roll my eyes and laugh at him and walk away. Morally superior and all of that.

Honestly, Lisa, my attitude on this type of thing really comes from ego more than anything else. I am really arrogant. Truly. In situations like that, I usually believe that I am the smartest person in the room (on random threads like that, anyway) and so I do or say what I want, knowing that I am that I am right and they are idiots, and the rest of them can all go screw.

Nice, eh?

But you asked about my mindset and that is pretty much it.

As for the flirting...next post.

 

[3DisneyKids]

I have continuously shut off newfound sexuality (meaning flirtatious side) - newfound b/c I didn't really have it before - because I thought that it was wrong. Literally.

And it was yesterday that I realized that it's not healthy and that I was doing it. You're shutting off a part of your entire well being. And I didn't know I was doing it. No idea. It took a conversation where I said something and someone said, "What the he!! are you talking about - first you don't have control over it - and second it's normal." I was beyond perplexed. Like at forty two I was realizing something you should know as a teenager.

Yet I always thought that flirting was like joy in my head - for others. Always "for others" with me with everything. I just thought mine couldn't be for obvious reasons (or I assume obvious reasons).

And your story just made me very happy. And there it was - just my issue.

Exhaling. Are you sure you wanted to know? I'll try not to edit.

Of course I want to know! And if I didn't ask, the Cutie would have, so there you go.

Here's the thing...flirting is FUN. I love it. And do it all the time. My husband is well aware of this. I flirt with him, too, when we are out at a bar or some event together.

If you want to practice and yet not have to put yourself out there, then flirt online! You are single. No harm, no foul. Go forth.

 

[lisaviolet]

Lisa--as to the thread-drama question...

Yes, I remember that thread. And no, I don't care that you mention it here. Most of the folks here had read it also. And for those of you who didn't, I basically threw down with some twit over some stupid issue. But I didn't START by throwing down. I just stated my opinion and he (I think) totally took it the wrong way and went carnival ape crazy on my a$$.

Now, we all know that I am competitive, right? That's a given. So I dished some back. Then he came back at me again. And at this point, it was like "This is SO not worth my time." I could have given it back to him again, but I just realized that I didn't give a f--- about him, thus didn't care what he thought, and certainly wasn't going to waste my time typing it all out. And honestly, I felt like I "won" because I was able to just roll my eyes and laugh at him and walk away. Morally superior and all of that.

Honestly, Lisa, my attitude on this type of thing really comes from ego more than anything else. I am really arrogant. Truly. In situations like that, I usually believe that I am the smartest person in the room (on random threads like that, anyway) and so I do or say what I want, knowing that I am that I am right and they are idiots, and the rest of them can all go screw.

Nice, eh?

But you asked about my mindset and that is pretty much it.

As for the flirting...next post.

I'm so laughing Erika. rotfl:

I'm so incredibly screwed because I don't have a chance in he!! of becoming arrogant or all knowing in this lifetime. Sh!t. Unfortunately.

I want a new upbringing.

But this is so not worth my time helps.

Thanks.

 

[lisaviolet]

Of course I want to know! And if I didn't ask, the Cutie would have, so there you go.

Here's the thing...flirting is FUN. I love it. And do it all the time. My husband is well aware of this. I flirt with him, too, when we are out at a bar or some event together.

If you want to practice and yet not have to put yourself out there, then flirt online! You are single. No harm, no foul. Go forth.

Sighing. Okay. Go forth I go!

Thanks Erika.

 

[devonsmommy]

Hi all!
I would love to join you here!
My name is Taryn. I live in PA with my dh and 2 little girls (almost 4 and almost 2). I am currently at my heaviest weight after having my girls. I was on bedrest with both. In the past I've done Weight Watchers, which really worked well for me. One year ago, I joined the gym. I have a personal trainer now and absolutely LOVE it! I have started the couch to 5K plan, and would love to run in Disney!

I am really looking for support and accountability.
Can't wait to get to know you all some more! Any questions, let her rip!

 

[3DisneyKids]

Hi Taryn!

WELCOME!

We love newbies around here. We are really supportive and good listeners. But we'll kick your a$$, figuratively anyway, if you start making excuses. We are all about owning it here.

Sounds like you are already in the right frame of mind! Awesome! We have a few WW folks here, as well as a variety of other plans. And MANY of us are runners and/or gym rats! In fact, there are 7 (wow...is that really right?) of us who are running the Princess Half in March.

If it helps, Amy (amykab) and I both started with Couch to 5k and we are both veteran runners/racers now with a nice collection of medals. I started running 18 months ago and still consider myself new to the sport. Have you joined one of the WISH racing teams yet? Amy and I are on Walt's Warriors and Ronda is one of Donald's Dashers (I think?) LisaPR is captain of the SuperGoofs.

So, jump in as much or little as you want. Some folks find it helpful to post their food and or exercise daily...so if that will help you be accountable, go for it.

 

[goofyfan-12]

Hi gang...

First off Lisa - so incredibly proud of you for putting all of that out there. I suck at flirting too so you are so not alone on that one. Start small and force yourself to do it. It can be quite fun!

Erika - yeah on the soccer game - and even more so on the summer husband's comment. Love that!

Nancy - try not to get too sucked into the MP story. So not worth your time these days.

Taryn - welcome to the party! I have a trainer too and love it! You'll see me talk about my sessions often (maybe too often now that I think about it). I am planning on walking the princess 1/2. Not quite up to running yet, but who knows.

Hi to everyone else!!!

Quiet night for me. Quick spin session and then iced tea at Starbucks with a friend. A good night indeed. Off to pack my lunch and catch some sleep.

Catch you all on the flip side.

 

[3DisneyKids]

No THINKING about the Half, Paula. Doing. Word.

 

[DisneyWorld Delight]

You Suck. I don't know if I'm more offended by the top-blocking going on or the "school that must not be named" references!!!!

Hi Taryn. I think your our first PA chit!

Honestly, Lisa, my attitude on this type of thing really comes from ego more than anything else. I am really arrogant. Truly. In situations like that, I usually believe that I am the smartest person in the room (on random threads like that, anyway) and so I do or say what I want, knowing that I am that I am right and they are idiots, and the rest of them can all go screw.

And THIS is why I love YOU!!!!! (well part of it anyway)

Good reading tonight. E - glad you rocked on the field. Your family watch? Lisa - love you and watching you find yourself. Nancy - I am happy now. I was concerned you thought Project Runway was about models, and it so ISN'T. Dawn - Silpada. Dans job. Treynors education. All interesting. Glad Paula and EriKa are here to help!!!!

We went to the Homearama tonight. SOOOOO disappointed. Where the heck are the million dollar homes? Apparently they are with the economy! They had 5 (5!!!) houses from 635K to 850K. Bo-Ring. I mean they were nice and all, and better than I'll ever live without winning the Mega Millions, but no "wows".

 

[3DisneyKids]

Oh Lyz, bummer! I know how much you love that event! I still remember the pics of it from last year!

 

[Dizneydawn]

Good morning. Again that darn inner alarm clock but this time had bad dreams to go with it. Hate that. No way was I going back to bed.

Baylor stayed home yesterday with sore throat. By last night he had over 100 fever and was coughing. Carsyn brought home a sheet about the flu and 6.3% of the middle school students were home with confirmed cases of the flu or flu like symptoms. 3 plus Baylor from his small 6 person class.

Off to clinic by 8 today to get tested and hopefully medicine for him. They are saying average for this is 5-7 days. Also praying I do not get whatever he has and I am doing my best to isolate him. They had a school board mtg on cable last night and the local schools are gettinmg hit hard with the H1N1 and are thinking of cancelling sports now so no more contact spreading.

Not sure if it matters what type of flu/bug Baylor has or not - I just hate my kids being sick. His issue of course is the leg because when your immune system is down - infection can set in easier if he had an open sore from anything.

Treyner is asking today his head coach for a release for so he can talk to other coaches. I think his nerves are shot. He is so worried about making the coach decide one way or another because he is wanting to cover his hind end. He spoke again with the assisitant coach last night and he reassured Treyner that Ogie (coach) would understand. Ogie had said to the goalies over a month ago that the ones not selected would be being released in 2 weeks.

If Anderson is selected, they have a huge transfer deduction in tuition and he gets like $5,000 being out of state. Cuts the OOP in half before any soccer scholarship.

I just want him settled and the thought of him moving his crud accross country before Jan 9th is enough to make me ill. I think we would have him home for Christmas and then a few days out - fly to Durango with him and drive to S.C. Makes no sense driving to MN 30 hours North to drive 20 hours South. Hopefully the school would allow him to keep his stuff there over the break. Have to figure out changing our Parent Loan to a different school - not sure if that will change anything or be a big deal.

I hate the unknown and this stresses me beyond anything.

Lisa - not sure yet what city. Actually after we get married next summer, Dan and I want to spend time driving the coast. I am an East coast girl - actually I love the gulf of Mexico the most but I do not want to live in Florida. I like what I have seen of SC/NC so thinking that area.

Trying to encourage Carsyn to look at schools south and maybe where Treyner is at because it would be so nice if it fits her needs. She though is worried about meeting Mr. Right in college in a place she does not want to live forever and feels that he and she would settle there. She wants seasons in all their glory and take family vacations warm like we did. Not sure where she gets the long term forecast and worrying from?

Off to go make breakfast for Carsyn and Dan - take Baylors temp again.

I should go back to bed and start my morning by praying it will be a great day!