Very interesting thread!!
"I agree that Disney should set aside some ressies for diners who don't know about planning far ahead of time and for those who choose not to plan 180 days out.
DDP has changed Disney Dining in many ways, and one of them is that some people like yourself and anyone else not "in the know" are being left out" - quoted from above...
This might be nice, BUT the thing is Disney is a business, it's all about the profit. To me, this isn't REALLY about the DDP (though that has obviously affected this a lot) or tourists vs. locals, etc.
This is about Disney wanting to have tables full, totally, at all times, whenever possible, to maximize profit. They enacted DDP to do this, and they have 180 day reservations to do this. It might be nice (for tourists, locals, anyone not a Disney exec!) to have some tables saved for walk-ins, etc. but is that the BEST way for Disney to ensure that it's tables will be full and it will maximize its profit? No, better to have those reservations in advance! (Though there is the argument that they are hurting overall profits by alienating locals, last-minute planners, etc!) And the system really isn't unfair - it's first-come, first-served, a very "time honored" method.
I have made this analogy before - to me it's like buying concert tickets. Like it or not, for popular concerts, you often times MUST buy them the day they are released, often within the first hour. Do they hold tickets back to sell them the last day for people who don't "like" to plan that far in advance or who weren't aware of the concert or who hadn't decided what they want to do that day? No! They sell them out as quickly as possible! Now, sometimes tickets become available at the last minute due to staging configurations etc, and sometimes people get lucky. This also happens with Disney restaurants - people cancel, tables become available, sometimes people get lucky to get last-minute ressies!!
I do empathize with the OP concern, but I think it's all about making choices I guess, whether you're local or a tourist. You can choose to eat onsite or offsite, you can choose to book 180 or 90 or whatever days in advance to have the best chance of getting specific times, restaurants, etc, you can choose to not want to do that for whatever reason and take your chances. Just my opinion!!
Oh, and LOL at the OP's husband calling people idiots with multiple misspellings and saying we don't know how to organise (sic!!) Planning and committing to a ressie 180 days in advance isn't being organized??? LOL!!
FWIW, I made all my ADR's at 180 days (calling back at 180 exactly for WPC) and have not changed them at all. We'll be there 4/28!