What many people here don't seem to get is that, depending where in Orlando you live, WDW may be your only viable choice for a restaurant. Unlike NYC, the restaurants in the Orlando area seem to be in pockets. I happen to be in the 4 Corners area, so my nearest pockets are WDW, followed by Clermont (a bit of a schlep), followed by Sand Lake (a much longer schlep, depending on traffic). If it's a weekday evening and we want to go out, we're pretty much stuck with WDW, because slogging out through I-4 on a weekday evening is unimaginable.
So I get the whole locals thing. I definitely think that WDW has increased the demand, and now they need to increase the supply accordingly. It doesn't even have to be Disney owned places; in fact, the non-Disney owned places are better, because they're not affected by the DDP in the sense of forced menu standardization.
There are a few standbys that we can almost always get into, like Kimonos, Raglan Road, Artist Point, or Jiko (though we don't like Jiko). Walk-ins like Earl or Beaches & Cream are, of course, anyone's game.
I don't think the purpose of this thread was anything constructive, though; I think it was to vent & get some empathy, which I & others have given

It definitely attracted some very bizarre flames - who the heck cares what part of NYC compares best to WDW? I can't believe how many posts were taken up with that random thread!
Cheers!
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