Same here. I don't think I posted on here in two days!
I've been on the fence whether to hit up Amex for my wife or myself any more before the end of the year. I've got a BGR burning in my wallet wanting its 20k MR referrals to be used this year!
I just don't think my wife is going to use the Amex Gold even if she's approved without the pop up. She eats out a lot, travels for work, so the CSR 3x is her go-to. She doesn't want to carry more cards. It took a lot just to get her to carry the CIU for "everything else," and she still doesn't consistently use the CIU for every other non-dining, non-travel charge. She won't use the Amex Gold just because it's pretty, because she doesn't want to have to worry about whether a restaurant, cafe, or food truck even takes Amex, and then whether they use Square because then it won't code 4x. She won't venture into Union Square just to buy a $10 Cheesecake Factory GC every month. I hate using these Amex credits on food delivery services, because the fees and tips pretty much eat up the value. So that potentially leaves $120 in value on the table. And she missed out on the AF waived first year offer, so we'd be paying a $250 AF. You see what I have to work with? And non-use of an Amex card is just going to land her back on the naughty list, if she's gotten off it at all.
So now I'm thinking I should just have my wife stick to Chase. She's at 2/24, with cards aging out in January and February.
Then there's the BBP for me? I have to stick to biz cards, because I'm now at 5/24, waiting for 1 more to drop off in February, then I'll be let back into Chase's playground. Then I can cancel the Marriott Biz, hit up the CIU, maybe try for the United Biz (which would then be my 4th Chase biz card), before finishing off with the United Explorer and/or Hyatt? I was paying off some bills over the weekend, and noticed I had put quite a bit more spend on my new BGR than I expected (lots of Christmas shopping!). I thought I'd have to throw a big Plastiq payment onto the BGR, but with some upcoming expenses over the holidays, that'll put me over $4k, and I can finish the <$1k left on MSR with organic spend by January. But then do I throw Plastiq onto a new BBP? I don't know if I'm hitting Amex too hard. I've gotten the (1) MB Plat, (2) SPG Personal, (3) Hilton Biz, (4) Biz Plat, (5) Biz Green, (6) SPG Lux, (7) BGR, all this year. Do I want to push it with an 8th card only a month after getting the BGR?