afan
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The wave or the original?
I like firmer mattresses, my wife likes them softer. We’re both side sleepers. I felt the wave was a bit too firm. The original Casper is around that sweet spot that hopefully will work for both of us.
For me, T&N is just too mushy with absolutely no side support (I’ve slid off it a few times!), and I sink when sitting upright. My wife likes the T&N but hates me complaining about it.
We also tried a Saatva luxury firm. They describe it as hotel quality and about a 7 in firmness. No way! I felt like I was sleeping on the floor for the week we tried it. And I’m the one who likes firmer mattresses. Back it went!
Before you started the new mattress adventure what did you have? I have a pillow top with memory foam that I like and am a side sleeper though occasionally on my back. I need good support but not too firm. I've used memory foam pillows for years and knowing how they are I have a hard time thinking a memory foam bed would work well, especially since it's what I sit on to watch tv in my bedroom. But they seem all the rage and it's got to be for a reason other than they come in a box

It’s getting so close! We’ve been making detailed plans for each day now even typing up where we plan to eat. We don’t want to get there and be lost
But if you have a map and the ability to read one and/or ask for directions getting lost is part of the fun of exploring. Or google maps, though it didn't work in Paris with all the tall buildings.