Meagan, I am so glad that you are in counseling and that things are getting better.
I am strongly in favor of trying to save a marriage, especially when young children are involved. As long as there is no violence involved, of course.
Just remember, every marriage has it's ups and downs, but something that is worth fighting for and working for will be that much more precious in the end . . .
Best of luck to you and your DH, preshi . . .