OP... I am sorry that you were disappointed. It is hard when things dont happen the way they should.
I'm even more saddend (sp) to read the responses that you are recieving on this thread.
You are clearly just stating the facts about misrepresentation.. I believe or maybe there allready is,, I am so new to this Disney stuff,,, but the fireworks show/change should have been on display when entering the parks,,, I believe if you or anyone else would have known earlier it would have elevated alot of surprise, and stress that you felt.
I do hope that when you go again,,, Wishes will be playing,,, Because like you,,, I LOVE Wishes, And on a side note,, I was there last year at Halloween and saw Wishes and Hallowishes,, and I agree Wishes is much better! I always love to sit in front of the castle with my family and watch,,, In Oct I sat up top of the train station,,, Which I will never do,,, Who knew,,, the dont turn off the lights,,, ! I learned that the hard way!
Enjoy your trip..