Don't hate me but I have a schedule. Even though it's just the two of us, it can be crazy hectic and the house can go to shambles in the blink of an eye lol
Somethings I've done to help at least keep things put in it's almost place. A basket in the living room for throw blankets and a smaller bakset for reading materials like the newspaper and magazines. I also have a cleaning kit in each bathroom. I have 4 bathrooms and I'm not sclepping stuff from one bathroom to another.
We have a catchall when you come in the house for car keys, wallets and everyday things we grab on the way out of the house. In our hall closet, I keep a large plastic tub for shoes so I can grab my purse/coat and shoes on the way out the door.
Sunday and Wednesday nights I mop my kitchen floor just because it's white and the devil lol if I don't sweep and mop it. I also keep a dust buster in the kitchen for quick spot "sweep."
Every morning while waiting on my coffee, I unload the dishwasher that was loaded after dinner the night before.
Sundays I do underwear and socks and all essentials and then try to do two loads during the week. Saturday mornings we throw the sheets in the wash with the all the towels in the house.
I don't have much carpet to clean anymore so now I have to sweep all the hardwood floors which get done about once a week. I only grocery shop twice a month so no help for that. I just grit my teeth and go late Friday evening and then have dinner out or vice versa. Who thought that date night would be dinner and grocery shopping?
It helps that we have alot more room now and threw out so much stuff when we moved that we have more space than stuff. I know alot of people have good luck with the setting the time for 10 minutes and everyone in the family has to help clean one room. I've done this with just us two but we split up and he takes one room and I take another.
One thing that helped was me getting up one hour earlier. I know get up at 5am but I have to be at the office at 0730. I try to get at least one chore done in that time.
I think it's easier if a list is made and can divide up even just a bit of it.