Do you love your state?

I love, love, love my state of NH!!!!! We have a place on the Lake that we spend every weekend at during the summer. We live on thirty acres, and only have eight houses on our entire road. We are less than an hour from both the ocean and the White Mountains for summer fun and have four ski areas within a half an hour from our house in the winter. My husband also makes a huge skating rink in our backyard every year. Whats not to love??? However, I have to say that when we retire, we do plan on spending three months in Florida and live at our lace on the lake for the rest of the year.


Can I move in with you? :laughing: It sounds absolutely beautiful! That describes exactly the type of place I would like to live. Maybe the winters would do me in, but I would love to move to the North. I live in Louisiana, and I would gladly give it up. We are at the bottom of every good list and the top of every bad list. And did I mention the humidity? Maybe I don't appreciate some of the good things about my state and would miss them if I moved, but I am willing to give it a try!
 
There are many things I like about Florida. Disney, hello?? Beautiful weather and beaches. But then there are things I don't like about it. Do I want to retire here? Heck no!!! Get me to the mountains of eastern TN or Western NC lol.
 
We love living in Colorado - been here 26 years now. Beautiful mountains, stunning vistas, sunshine 300+ days per year, low humidity, a much milder climate than people expect, wonderful outdoor opportunities year-round, good schools, fun sports teams to follow, and generally very nice people.

I get tired of shoveling snow during our big snowstorms, but they don't come often enough most years to take the bloom off the rose. :rose:

Where in Colorado do you live? After state shopping online, my son has decided that he wants to move to Colorado. Are there any cities/areas that you would say he should look into further?

I have visited Vail and Winter Park in the winter and Breckenridge in the summer, and all were breathtakingly beautiful!
 
I grew up in Michigan and moved back here 10 years ago. I love Michigan in the spring, summer, and fall--it's beautiful, there's the Great Lakes and green farmland and trees and there's so much to do. Unfortunately, winter lasts freaking forEVER.

I lived in New Mexico for 15 years and even though it's so very different from Michigan, I love it every bit as much. I miss green chile and sopapillas. I miss the big skies and the beautiful weather and the sunshine and the incredibly friendly people. And, of course, my dd who is going to college there.

I think when we retire, we'll winter in New Mexico and spend the rest of the year in Michigan. That way we'll have the best of both worlds and I'll get to spend time with the friends that I miss in New Mexico. And if we win the lottery, we'll also have a house in DH's hometown in Yorkshire in England.
 

I was born and raised in TN and joined the Air Force when I was 20. Now I live in Massachusetts. :mad: I hate it. MA is the worst state I've ever lived! It's dirty, old, torn up and the people are rude and bad drivers! The only thing that keeps me here is the good job. As you can see in my signature, I try to get away as much as possible.
 
I was born and raised in TN and joined the Air Force when I was 20. Now I live in Massachusetts. :mad: I hate it. MA is the worst state I've ever lived! It's dirty, old, torn up and the people are rude and bad drivers! The only thing that keeps me here is the good job. As you can see in my signature, I try to get away as much as possible.

Hey! I'm a Massachusetts boy and I have to say that your statements about my state are....absolutely true.

I've got another 20 years and then I'm going to retire in Georgia.
 
Hey! I'm a Massachusetts boy and I have to say that your statements about my state are....absolutely true.

I've got another 20 years and then I'm going to retire in Georgia.

I moved to MA my Junior year of HS (1988) and for the first 10+ years I hated it. I still don't love it, but have gotten used to it and tolerate it. Would I move- in a heartbeat! I always stayed b/c my parents are here, then I met my husband who was born and raised here. I like my house, but I have no emotional attachment to it and would have no problem moving now. Unfortunately since 1988 I really don't feel like I have a hometown.

- drivers are crazy and rude. Only in MA are drivers allowed to drive in the breakdown lane during rush hour (I-95).
- cost of living high- real estate, taxes/fees. Just the other day I had to explain to someone on DIS what an excise bill is on a car.
- shopping stinks. I will admit it is getting better (i.e. grocery- finally getting Wegmans)
- still haven't found a pizza or cheesesteak to die for
- I love the ocean- but not a fan of rocky beaches and cold water. No desire to go to the Cape, I'll drive 5+ hours to Long Beach Island, NJ.
- SNOW, SLEET, AND MORE SNOW, were I live 4WD is a must
- roads are falling apart
- Politics- for example, MA actually elected a state auditor who got caught cheating on her taxes. Last three Speakers of the House in a row- guilty, guilty, on trial. :confused3 Mass is also very soft on crime.
 
I've lived in SC my whole life and never want to live anywhere else. We live 3 hours from the ocean and 3 hours from the mountains. I live just across the state line from Charlotte and love it. I can be in downtown Charlotte or the airport in less than 20 min.

In the area I live in there are few people that 'are from around here'. Most are transplants.
 
I didn't until I lived for a couple of years in FL and realized just how much I loved it up here, even in the winter. Of course there are negatives that go along with the positives but no matter where on Earth you live that is true.
 
Yes, very much so.

I was born in upstate New York but raised here in Mississippi. And I wouldn't want to live anywhere else.
 
No, I don't love my state. I'm probably the only person out there who hates Florida. There are parts of the state I do like, especially the Keys, but for the most part I hate the whole state.

A lot of it is the weather; I hate the weather from about May to October. I don't understand the appeal of living in a place where it's uncomfortable to be outside for most of the year. I miss the cold weather and the snow, I feel like the only person who gets excited when it gets really cold in the winter.

Unfortunately we're stuck here for now. I'm in school until the end of next year, and DH can't transfer out for another couple of years.
 
I was born and raised in TN and joined the Air Force when I was 20. Now I live in Massachusetts. :mad: I hate it. MA is the worst state I've ever lived! It's dirty, old, torn up and the people are rude and bad drivers! The only thing that keeps me here is the good job. As you can see in my signature, I try to get away as much as possible.

Hey! I'm a Massachusetts boy and I have to say that your statements about my state are....absolutely true.

I've got another 20 years and then I'm going to retire in Georgia.

I moved to MA my Junior year of HS (1988) and for the first 10+ years I hated it. I still don't love it, but have gotten used to it and tolerate it. Would I move- in a heartbeat! I always stayed b/c my parents are here, then I met my husband who was born and raised here. I like my house, but I have no emotional attachment to it and would have no problem moving now. Unfortunately since 1988 I really don't feel like I have a hometown.

- drivers are crazy and rude. Only in MA are drivers allowed to drive in the breakdown lane during rush hour (I-95).
- cost of living high- real estate, taxes/fees. Just the other day I had to explain to someone on DIS what an excise bill is on a car.
- shopping stinks. I will admit it is getting better (i.e. grocery- finally getting Wegmans)
- still haven't found a pizza or cheesesteak to die for
- I love the ocean- but not a fan of rocky beaches and cold water. No desire to go to the Cape, I'll drive 5+ hours to Long Beach Island, NJ.
- SNOW, SLEET, AND MORE SNOW, were I live 4WD is a must
- roads are falling apart
- Politics- for example, MA actually elected a state auditor who got caught cheating on her taxes. Last three Speakers of the House in a row- guilty, guilty, on trial. :confused3 Mass is also very soft on crime.

OK, now I'm feeling a little better about Louisiana! :laughing: I guess the grass is always greener.......
 
Most of the time.

The only time I don't like it is on election days and sundays.

I'm a moderate in a conservative bible belt red state, enough said.

Right there with you. I live in Texas, and when I first moved here, I LOVED it. Then I realized I wasn't the "right" religion, or the "right" political party. And my fellow Texans have no problem letting me know that I don't "think" like them.

In my kids public school, they have a teacher who teaches the kids about religion. His religion of course, and it is all perfectly acceptable. I would love for some of the people who live here to live for one week outside the bible belt and realize that there is a big wide world out there and not everyone thinks like them.

So no, pretty much don't like my state. DH job is here so can't really go anywhere, but I want to move back "home" one day. PA.
 
We have lived here 20+ years and I would move tomorrow if I could. Honestly -- tomorrow. I hate it here.

When we moved here, it was after a series of successful moves. Each time, we were able to find and enjoy the positive aspects and make good friends. Heck, we've gone on 2 week group tours and ended up with lifelong friends. So we had every expectation of the same here.

Unfortunately, it did not work out that way. We tried everything that had worked in the past, plus added new techniques. Nothing worked. It was made quite clear to us, over and over, in multiple situations/settings that since we were not "from" here we were outsiders and while our time/money/volunteering was more than wanted (it was EXPECTED), no one had any interest in being friends with us. When we'd ask people to dinner, the movies, to bowling or a baseball game or just to talk at a PTA function, we were told: "We already have all the friends we need. We grew up here, you know. If you want friends, maybe you should move back home. Your home."

Add to that the cold and snow and the fact that it is flat flat flat...

Yeah, I hate it. We NEVER intended to stay here, but a few years after we moved, dh's field contracted and the job losses were severe. We expected they would rebound and under that expectation, I left my profession due to burn out and took a lower-paying job. Subsequently, we realized that we were stuck. And so we remain.

The goal of my life is early retirement. That is all I live for.

Where is here?
 
Where in Colorado do you live? After state shopping online, my son has decided that he wants to move to Colorado. Are there any cities/areas that you would say he should look into further?

I have visited Vail and Winter Park in the winter and Breckenridge in the summer, and all were breathtakingly beautiful!

T*Bird, I live just north of the Air Force Academy. I'm 15 minutes north of Colorado Springs and 40 minutes south of Denver. Perfect location. This area of the state is called the Front Range - it's the front range of the Rocky Mountains.

As far as cities to suggest, my own thoughts are that living along the Front Range is best because you've got the best of both worlds - access to all the benefits of cities, but you can easily get to the mountains. Colorado is a great place for long weekend trips - we are always discovering some new "burg" in Colorado that we didn't know of before. So, that being said, I'd look into some of the Denver suburbs (Arvada, Westminster, Lakewood, Littleton, come to mind, but here are more for sure), a couple places like Morrison or Evergreen which are more into the mountains but still close to Denver, and then some other cities close by like Golden, Broomfield, Longmont, Loveland, etc.

Fort Collins is a great city, very friendly, but it's a bit further from the moutains. Pueblo is warm, but it's not my cup of tea - although it does have a nice reservoir when there's plenty of water. Grand Junction is also growing on the Western Slope and is a nice change of pace.

Boulder is a wonderful place; both our kids went to CU-Boulder (one still there as a junior), but it is VERY expensive to live there. But the restaurants are to die for - they are "anti-chain" up there and the local places are original and create amazing dishes. Real estate is sky high too.

I like Colorado Springs a lot, but you will find a whole bunch of people who don't because they associate it with Focus on the Family. They think everyone who lives in Colorado Springs is a Christian fundamentalist wacko. That is a VERY inaccurate, broad-brush conclusion. While there certainly is a conservative lean to many people, you'll find plenty of the opposite extreme. We also have a very strong military presence and a lot of support for the troops here, as we have Fort Carson, Peterson Air Force Base, Shriever Air Force Base, Cheyenne Mountain Air Station (NORAD) installation, as well as the Air Force Academy. It's very pretty here too and the city is right against the mountains. My husband's law office is in Colorado Springs, so I don't think we'll be leaving any time soon (I am also an attorney but I work from home for a legal publishing company).

I too love Vail, Breck, Winter Park, Steamboat, Durango, Glenwood Springs, Aspen, Crested Butte, Estes Park, Grand Lake, etc. The downside to those communities is the very high cost of living. That's why many of us visit them various times year round. We especially love Vail and Estes Park winter and summer - they are wonderful places!!

Hope this helps a bit. There are a lot of attractive options; it all depends on what you're looking for. :goodvibes
 
I was born and raised in TN and joined the Air Force when I was 20. Now I live in Massachusetts. :mad: I hate it. MA is the worst state I've ever lived! It's dirty, old, torn up and the people are rude and bad drivers! The only thing that keeps me here is the good job. As you can see in my signature, I try to get away as much as possible.

They don't call us Massh$#@S for nothing!!! And have you been to NYC:thumbsup2

I love it here, hate the way it is run but as far as culture, sports etc wouldn't live anywhere else.

I live 100 feet from the beach, work 10 minutes from the Garden & Fenway. I can be at the Museum of Science or Fine Arts, in a nano second. People come from all over the world for medical treatment. Most trauma ctrs are modeled after one here.

Politically - ridiculous. Enviromentally - whacko. Weather - freeze or sweat.

Sports - doesn't get any better. (BTW GO BRUINS!!!!)

But the only place I will be moving after retiring is Bahamas. Six months there - six here - guess which six are there:thumbsup2
 
DH & I have two homes. One in Boston, MA and one in San Diego.

We absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE California.
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We are not going back anytime soon to New England. While yes all our families are on the east coast. Nothing compares to the weather in southern California. ESP the winter :cold: the east just went through and now their spring
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showers.

It is just :sunny:sunny sunny sunny here. :love:

AND as far as family is concerned, they all come HERE to get away from the constant dreay weather AND to see all the wonderful sights as well as our beautiful fabulous coastline.
I am planning a trip east in August and I am not looking forward to that horrific humidity. :headache:
 
Right there with you. I live in Texas, and when I first moved here, I LOVED it. Then I realized I wasn't the "right" religion, or the "right" political party. And my fellow Texans have no problem letting me know that I don't "think" like them.

In my kids public school, they have a teacher who teaches the kids about religion. His religion of course, and it is all perfectly acceptable. I would love for some of the people who live here to live for one week outside the bible belt and realize that there is a big wide world out there and not everyone thinks like them.

So no, pretty much don't like my state. DH job is here so can't really go anywhere, but I want to move back "home" one day. PA.
That is a difficult part of living in Texas. We live in a very conservative area and I am so not like that. I need to be in the Austin or Houston area which is much different.
 
Not very fond of my state! I'd be out of here in a heartbeat if my family wasn't here. We considered moving down south recently but with a one year old, you just can't beat the family support and the opportunity for DD to be so close to her grandparents and cousins.....but one day we hope to move!
 


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