Actually, that's proper flag protocol.I would be irritated by this. I would feel that the union jack was put there, on that particular day, as a show of disrespect towards our country.
with that being said, I know that there is nothing that I could have done to change it. therefore, i would have just moved along and not have made a scene.
This disrespect for our flag, our symbol of freedom, is happening more and more often. Even the shriners, fly a Canadian and a Mexican flag at the same height as the American flag, during the opening ceremonies of their circuses.
No big deal, if these were guest balconies. UK guests have just as much right to their national pride, regardless of what day it is.
In related flag irritations though, I'm a relatively recent (1 year) transplant to Texas, and it's a continual source of annoyance to me that the state flag is plastered everywhere, usually without the US flag, and NEVER the other way around. The identity of folks down here seems to be "Texan first, American second," and it feels unpatriotic to me.
I would be irritated by this. I would feel that the union jack was put there, on that particular day, as a show of disrespect towards our country.
with that being said, I know that there is nothing that I could have done to change it. therefore, i would have just moved along and not have made a scene.
This disrespect for our flag, our symbol of freedom, is happening more and more often. Even the shriners, fly a Canadian and a Mexican flag at the same height as the American flag, during the opening ceremonies of their circuses.
In related flag irritations though, I'm a relatively recent (1 year) transplant to Texas, and it's a continual source of annoyance to me that the state flag is plastered everywhere, usually without the US flag, and NEVER the other way around. The identity of folks down here seems to be "Texan first, American second," and it feels unpatriotic to me.
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HI! Okay, well I have never EVER saw a British flag or any other flag hung over the balcony before. It's just odd they would hang a British flag on a very specific USA Holiday. Brunette
Well, you did say up front that you were "wondering how others felt about this before I let my feelings known!" So, while maybe implied, you hadn't really said specifically how you felt.Well, I thought how "I" felt was at least implied throughout this thread but seeing as how you request it, I'll express that now!
Did he say why he was offended? Because that's still the big mystery to me. What part of that is offensive, considering our current and long-held friendship with England? And ... if seeing that flag on that day was considered offensive, would your DH also feel the need to, say, avoid the UK pavilion on July 4 because he would feel uncomfortable there? (Not trying to call our your DH specifically ... but he's the only actual 'subject' we have who we can interview!First, my own take. I wasn't bothered by it in the least. I heard some grumbling on the monorail which I couldn't quite make out but am pretty sure, was negative. I didn't think much of it, until DH said how he felt about it at which point, I had mixed feelings but still didn't think much about it.
After reading these responses, especially some of the thoughtful and intelligent ones, that is how I feel: "it's no big deal".
I was however, irritated by it hanging over the balcony however, not because it was a Union Jack but because of how it looked.
The purpose for writing this post (take note please those with the snarky remarks..) was simply by request of DH who was offended but wondered if he was being "unreasonable". Again, after reading the "better" responses here, he realizes that sums up his reaction.
When he first saw it, he was offended.
Or ... they checked out that afternoon and took it with them when they left.However, that changed after reading some of these responses and, the fact that the guests had taken it down during the holiday. So it would appear, that the guests did respect our tradition and hats off to them for doing so!
Well, you did say up front that you were "wondering how others felt about this before I let my feelings known!" So, while maybe implied, you hadn't really said specifically how you felt.![]()
Did he say why he was offended? Because that's still the big mystery to me. What part of that is offensive, considering our current and long-held friendship with England? And ... if seeing that flag on that day was considered offensive, would your DH also feel the need to, say, avoid the UK pavilion on July 4 because he would feel uncomfortable there? (Not trying to call our your DH specifically ... but he's the only actual 'subject' we have who we can interview!)
Or ... they checked out that afternoon and took it with them when they left.
I think that a lot of foreign guests -- Europeans in particular -- fly their national flags on their cars, from their balconies, whatever, to signal to other international travelers that, "Hey -- Brits over here!" or "Look -- Germans in this room!" It's an easy way of connecting with folks from your home country. It's the same reason that people wear t-shirts with their favorite sports team or display banners from their college -- they're hoping someone will notice and say, "Oh my gosh ... you went to University of Slobovia? Me too!"
People spend too much time trying to find reasons to take offense at things. As a nation, I think we Americans are quickly becoming the nationality most likely to blow things out of proportion.
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I agree... it sounds kinda like at the start of the Falkland's War my parents were initially horrified to see that someone had planted a Union Jack in the front yard of some neighbors who where Argentinian. Well, it turned out to be the work of another neighbor who was British (and good friends with the Argentinians) who decided to try provide some comic relief to the strange events off the coast of South America. It turns out we missed the best of it, the British neighbor had temporarily "blockaded" the Argentinian couple's driveway with his MG Midget and had marched back in forth in a pith helmet with the Union Jack before planting it in the front the flag in the front yard and claiming the property "In the Name of Queen Elizabeth!"My guess is that it was meant to be humorous. Just a friendly, cheeky little nudge from the 'other side' of Independence Day.
If it were me, I would have laughed and appreciated the humor.
People so often assume hostility where none was intended.![]()
Geoff_M said:I agree... it sounds kinda like at the start of the Falkland's War my parents were initially horrified to see that someone had planted a Union Jack in the front yard of some neighbors who where Argentinian. Well, it turned out to be the work of another neighbor who was British (and good friends with the Argentinians) who decided to try provide some comic relief to the strange events off the coast of South America. It turns out we missed the best of it, the British neighbor had temporarily "blockaded" the Argentinian couple's driveway with his MG Midget and had marched back in forth in a pith helmet with the Union Jack before planting it in the front the flag in the front yard and claiming the property "In the Name of Queen Elizabeth!"
I'm sorry. I was just asking because I didn't understand. I wasn't expecting him to "admit he was wrong in spades" or give a lecture on UK v. US. I don't think I ever said that.What measure of allocution from my DH would suffice for you? To admit he was wrong in spades?
What I can say about my DH as an asset, is his ability to admit when he's wrong (which he did). No formal written apology or admission is required as far as I'm concerned. He also has a measure of humility, which it is clear some others don't possess.
So when we have a response where the author of the post is stating how some "blow things out of proportion" appears so often and now, to be basically the pot calling the kettle black.
Thank you Searcher, for the soliloquy!![]()
OMG, that's priceless. I love it!
The world would be a much safer, calmer place if more people looked at the world the way these neighbors do. A well-developed sense of the absurd is a wonderful thing.![]()