danx2plus3more
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is cindys wedding dress still available??? i love that one my daughter would too
the deluxe cinderella dress...did you put somthing on under it to puff it more or is it that puffy??
Am I the only one who thinks this is just a bit too much?
No, I know I'm not the only because I saw a segment on one of the major networks new shows (20/20 I think) who said the same thing, and more.
Everything in life is accelerated so quickly and this is just another example. Seeing in WDW some of the little girls *made up* like teenagers is heartbreaking. Kids are little for such a short time. Between preschoolers knowing who Britney is (and liking her, ugh) and the way popular culture and media are today, there is little to look forward to.
Similar to the 3 year old soccer team in our town. Cute as can be but no wonder kids get burnt out before they're truly old enough to decide *if* they really like something, or are possibly even good at it.
JMO and both of my sisters both disagree with me too - they're huge BBB fans. But my fire suit is on, flame away![]()
I really don't care - just some *food for thought* from a mom of tweens who has been there, done that![]()
Am I the only one who thinks this is just a bit too much?
No, I know I'm not the only because I saw a segment on one of the major networks new shows (20/20 I think) who said the same thing, and more.
Everything in life is accelerated so quickly and this is just another example. Seeing in WDW some of the little girls *made up* like teenagers is heartbreaking. Kids are little for such a short time. Between preschoolers knowing who Britney is (and liking her, ugh) and the way popular culture and media are today, there is little to look forward to.
Similar to the 3 year old soccer team in our town. Cute as can be but no wonder kids get burnt out before they're truly old enough to decide *if* they really like something, or are possibly even good at it.
JMO and both of my sisters both disagree with me too - they're huge BBB fans. But my fire suit is on, flame away![]()
I really don't care - just some *food for thought* from a mom of tweens who has been there, done that![]()
Oh I agree w/ you. My dd is 6.5yo and did not got to BBB in December and I swallowed my issues w/ it and offered her as choice between BBB and another kid's pirate cruise for her upcoming birthday trip and she picked the pirate cruise!
Don't get me wrong, she's a princess freak through and through...but she really enjoyed her pirate cruise at POR in December so she opted to try the GF one.
She's got three dresses(that she knows of) and one that she will be surprised w/ when we arrive in July for her bday trip. We had her wear her dresses for character meals (Minnie for Chef Mickey's, Snow White for Akershus and Cindy for 1900 Park Fare) and then she took it off. She did wear Snow White a little longer around Epcot, but I don't foresee her doing that in July w/ the heat.
To be honest, I was pretty uncomfortable w/ the amount of makeup on the BBB girls we saw around the park...but I could deal w/ that to a certain degree (even though I prefer dd not to have any at 6 or 7yo). I was VERY uncomfortable hearing parents chiding the children for getting "messed up" while touring the park in their BBB outfits...and seeing the poor little girl in the GF bathroom crying because her feet were all red and swollen from her princess shoes. It really was disturbing.
All the BBB girls we saw looked exactly the same and for what they are doing (hair, makeup & nails) for $50...I would rather have dd do something interactive like the pirate cruise (only $30) and then stop by the barber shop for a bit of pixie dust instead.
I know that I could have dd do BBB w/o the makeup...but I wouldn't let her do BBB and then stop her from doing what the girl next to her is doing (like limiting candy "awards" at school...sure I don't want dd to have candy but I don't want her to not get her award, YKWIM?).
It isn't just BBB, I'm equally disturbed by Libby Lou, the bday "makeover" parties at Glamouricous and Justice for Girls, etc... I just don't think it is appropriate to push all this on really young girls. Dress up is one thing, but layering on the makeup (I have yet to see a princess in a Disney movie putting makeup on as part of the story) is a totally different issue.
I guess I'll put on my fire suit too!
Am I the only one who thinks this is just a bit too much?
No, I know I'm not the only because I saw a segment on one of the major networks new shows (20/20 I think) who said the same thing, and more.
Everything in life is accelerated so quickly and this is just another example. Seeing in WDW some of the little girls *made up* like teenagers is heartbreaking. Kids are little for such a short time. Between preschoolers knowing who Britney is (and liking her, ugh) and the way popular culture and media are today, there is little to look forward to.
Similar to the 3 year old soccer team in our town. Cute as can be but no wonder kids get burnt out before they're truly old enough to decide *if* they really like something, or are possibly even good at it.
JMO and both of my sisters both disagree with me too - they're huge BBB fans. But my fire suit is on, flame away![]()
I really don't care - just some *food for thought* from a mom of tweens who has been there, done that![]()
I was VERY uncomfortable hearing parents chiding the children for getting "messed up" while touring the park in their BBB outfits...and seeing the poor little girl in the GF bathroom crying because her feet were all red and swollen from her princess shoes. It really was disturbing.
All the BBB girls we saw looked exactly the same and for what they are doing (hair, makeup & nails) for $50...I would rather have dd do something interactive like the pirate cruise (only $30) and then stop by the barber shop for a bit of pixie dust instead.
I think it is silly to read so much into this!
Little girls play dress up and have forever. It doesn't come from pop culture - it comes from the fact that adult women dress up/wear makeup, and little kids like to pretend to be grown-up. The only reason we see something more sinister in it is because we're so conditioned to overanalyzing *everything* when it comes to parenting. I really don't see a difference between the BBB and the pictures my grandmother has of my mom in a homemade replica of Grandma's wedding gown, complete with little-girl heels, fake pearls, and the horrible bright lipstick that was the style in the 50s. It is all just innocent fun, not early conditioning for teenage promiscuity a la Brittney. And BBB is, in my experience, very age-appropriately done. DD was practically bathed in pixie dust, but the actual makeup colors were very subtle and very little-girl play makeup pastel.
I tend to think that when it comes to activities for little kids, whether BBB or 3yo soccer or whatever, there's no harm in it as long as the interest is genuinely child-led. Burn out comes from parents pushing, not from letting kids follow their interests (even if it is just a passing interest in soccer because a TV character they like plays), and not every activity has to develop into a long-term interest to be worthwhile.
To the OP, your little girl is adorable! You must have an extra closet for all those costumes. I would have loved to have had so many pretty princess dresses when I was little.![]()
I bet many people find your pictures and comments helpful. I don't have kids, but even I liked looking at all the different dresses out there! This big kid wishes they came in adult sizes!![]()