DD loves to dress up! It is sad to see it start to fade as she gets older. We used to go everywhere and she would be dressed up in one of her princess dress - to the store, the gas station, everywhere! Now she will dress up at home and at Disney.
Last year she did BBB for the first time. We brought our own CInderella dress but she really wanted to add the shoes to her outfit. We agreed she could buy them but she had to use her own money! Well she wore them for about ten minutes before putting her
crocs back on! LOL!! She did put them back on for our lunch at CRT but that was it. The princess shoes are not theme park shoes in my opinion but my dd had to learn that one for herself and at her own cost. She regretted that puchase for the entire trip. Now when she does dress up for a day at disney - her feet stay comfy in her crocs.
We will be doing BBB on our upcoming trip as her birthday present - once again we will bring our own dress but this time I do not believe she will buy the shoes! LOL!!
I did tell our FGT to go light on the make up which she did. In my opinion I see nothing wrong with it. You do not have to do the makeup or you can specifiy to make it lighter than you have seen. Our FGT was wonderful and very tactful, Most importantly she did a great job in making dd feel special!!!
To the OP: I believe my dd would be green with jealousy at the number of dresses your dd has!! You are a wonderful momto encourage your dds imagaination so. I too have gotten great deals on dds princess dresses. Only once I have paid full price and I regretted it. It was the Jasmine one where the coins fall off easily. After we washed it - it became indecent to wear in public it was so see through. I have seen a new version of Jasmine at DL that I want to take a closer look at when I am not with DD. We also have TDS Jasmine (pink purple) that DD loves and everyone at DL/WDW comments on when we go.