Since I started the thread, I feel I should answer.
First off, can we afford deluxe?? Yes we can. However, I don't know if we want to and that is why I am asking if it is that much of a difference from a mod! If I am paying one thousand more to stay deluxe, I want it to be worth it!
As for us, we thought the leap of value to mod was a fair one. We live the theming of values and had to get used to the feel of por for a few days. It didn't feel Disney to us since we were used to the over the top decorations! Anyway, now comparing value to mod, we feel the mod is worth the 500 more that we spent.
I know this is just someone's opinion. We are No way near rich, but we do have money to stay deluxe. However, I am a "saver" by nature and throwing that money for something that I may regret scares me LOL
With all that said, 2013 is our ten year and it's a perfect time to see if deluded fit our family, but again I am afraid either a) it won't then I wasted that money or b) we love it and never want mod again!!!! Lmao