Any Single Disney Men Out There?

[mickeysbestfriend]

For an LDR to work, one or the other mate has to have a job that is transportable or one or the other has to have a way of suppporting them both. Certain proffessions allow such flexibility but with mine it does not...at least not in the short term.

Good one CG on the wet T!

 

[Kimmielee]

But how do you decide within that first meeting, that this is "it"? Because you pretty much have to, if meeting up in the first place would require a whole huge lot of planning and such, and you know that there is no "let's get together Saturday night and go play bingo" in your joint future because of distance issues. What if you spent amazing hours on the phone with someone, really think that there is a connection, but you're faced with that distance thing?

There may be a way where's there a will in terms of the heart, but that doesn't have much effect on actual logistics. You would pretty much have to decide in that first meeting if you had a real future, a future solid enough for one person to uproot their lives. How do you decide that??

It just seems so futile to even get excited about, you know?

Prior to starting any type of correspondence, via chat rooms, email, private messages, text messages and phone calls, one or both parties must be open to the possibility of relocating. If not, it is a futile experience.

Dating can be in many forms. Spending physical time together is a bonus, if dating someone via a long distance relationship.

The amount of quality time spent getting to know one another on an intimate level emotionally without the physical intimacy is far more enriching. If the physical intimacy were introduced too early in a relationship it can be misconstrued for love when in fact it's just physical lust.

The ability to get so close to someone on such an emotional level without having the physical emotions get in the way, in my opinion, builds a stronger foundation of mutual friendship, respect and love. With a foundation that strong, how can it be futile?

If both parties are honest and open with one another, the foundation is built after several week or months of truly getting to know one another - that is the making of a beautiful future - it can be amazing when it happens. It's rare, but it is out there. I, for one, will not give up my Disney Prince because he's too far away for me to touch - physically.

There are so many means of transportation to get to the physical part. It's got to be something both parties are willing to wait for and spend the interim building the ever important foundation.

I think we have had a few success stories between this thread and DisMates that have proven that it does work. That gives me hope!

 

[Goofy4Disney!]

Prior to starting any type of correspondence, via chat rooms, email, private messages, text messages and phone calls, one or both parties must be open to the possibility of relocating. If not, it is a futile experience.

Dating can be in many forms. Spending physical time together is a bonus, if dating someone via a long distance relationship.

The amount of quality time spent getting to know one another on an intimate level emotionally without the physical intimacy is far more enriching. If the physical intimacy were introduced too early in a relationship it can be misconstrued for love when in fact it's just physical lust.

The ability to get so close to someone on such an emotional level without having the physical emotions get in the way, in my opinion, builds a stronger foundation of mutual friendship, respect and love. With a foundation that strong, how can it be futile?

If both parties are honest and open with one another, the foundation is built after several week or months of truly getting to know one another - that is the making of a beautiful future - it can be amazing when it happens. It's rare, but it is out there. I, for one, will not give up my Disney Prince because he's too far away for me to touch - physically.

There are so many means of transportation to get to the physical part. It's got to be something both parties are willing to wait for and spend the interim building the ever important foundation.

I think we have had a few success stories between this thread and DisMates that have proven that it does work. That gives me hope!

I absolutely agree. My late husband fortunately worked for the Dept. Of Justice and was in a position that he could relocate. He lived in Indiana at the time I met him, me in Boston. If it were a situation where he couldn't relocate, I'm not entirely sure I would have gotten as involved as I did. Because the heartbreak of getting so close to someone, knowing that the two of you can't have a solid future being "together" would be terrible, IMHO.

Also, I agree that getting to know each other online, phone conversations, texts etc. is almost a stronger bond, a wonderful way of really getting to know a person, since perhaps the "lust" factor is not as involved as could be in a face to face physical relationship 24/7, and you really really get to know that person through thoughts, and words and phone converstaions. Just think, (and I say this often to people that don't believe internet- type/LDR relationships can work) long ago, written correspondence was the only/best way that people got to know each other, no phones, internet/computers etc.

Just my two cents...

 

[R.S.Winters]

hi all. just noticed this thread on here...
going way back to the original post, i would say that im looking for a dedicated 'number 10' on the scale lol
i think that we should start an official dating thread - all "single and looking" members to post their stats and what theyre looking for!! lol!
should be interesting!!

DAN ​

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[DisneydaveCT]

Kimmielee and Goofy are correct. LDR can develop on this thread, over on Dismates, or anywhere on the Internet. It just takes time and honesty...something that is also required when meeting a local guy/gal.

As I posted way back in this thread. It is possible for each of us to meet our Disney or and possibly find as well. But to do so, we must let the other person know of our interest in pursuing a relationship. This is true for women and men. Remember we can't look across the crowded Internet to see a Princess' eyes to see if she is interested in a certain .

Just some thoughts on a quiet Sunday....before watching the Funai Classic from WDW.

 

[CoasterAddict]

It is possible for each of us to meet our Disney or and possibly find as well. But to do so, we must let the other person know of our interest in pursuing a relationship. This is true for women and men.

True enough. You need to be willing to take a chance. Of course, you also need to able to bounce back and try again if that attraction is a one-way street. If it's meant to be, it will be. In the meantime...take time to appreciate everything that's going right in your world.

 

[wdwtheplacetobe]

Prior to starting any type of correspondence, via chat rooms, email, private messages, text messages and phone calls, one or both parties must be open to the possibility of relocating. If not, it is a futile experience.

Dating can be in many forms. Spending physical time together is a bonus, if dating someone via a long distance relationship.

The amount of quality time spent getting to know one another on an intimate level emotionally without the physical intimacy is far more enriching. If the physical intimacy were introduced too early in a relationship it can be misconstrued for love when in fact it's just physical lust.

The ability to get so close to someone on such an emotional level without having the physical emotions get in the way, in my opinion, builds a stronger foundation of mutual friendship, respect and love. With a foundation that strong, how can it be futile?

If both parties are honest and open with one another, the foundation is built after several weeks or months of truly getting to know one another - that is the making of a beautiful future - it can be amazing when it happens. It's rare, but it is out there. I, for one, will not give up my Disney Prince because he's too far away for me to touch - physically.

There are so many means of transportation to get to the physical part. It's got to be something both parties are willing to wait for and spend the interim building the ever important foundation.

I think we have had a few success stories between this thread and DisMates that have proven that it does work. That gives me hope!

After spending the last 3 days together, I can tell you that what Kimmie describes is EXACTLY the way it happens.

Like anything else worthwhile in life....you BOTH have to want to work Hard for it....and continue working forvever.

It CAN be done!!!

See most of ya'll in December and hopefully some more Magic before then!

 

[CoasterAddict]

Like anything else worthwhile in life....you BOTH have to want to work Hard for it....and continue working forvever.

...yes, wasn't there a wise comment posted a few pages back about *partnership*...that's really what it's all about. Takes two to tango, and all that...

 

[katydidbug1]

I agree WDW...even if the relationship isn't LD, it still takes hard work. Anything worth having is worth working for. Just my 2 cents.

After spending the last 3 days together, I can tell you that what Kimmie describes is EXACTLY the way it happens.

Like anything else worthwhile in life....you BOTH have to want to work Hard for it....and continue working forvever.

It CAN be done!!!

See most of ya'll in December and hopefully some more Magic before then!

 

[wdwtheplacetobe]

Hi Ya'll!!!

Just for thrills...Who all is planning on the Dec 10 EMH MK meet???

(Flagpole at mouth of Main St after Wishes)

Trying to get a rough idea of a count...

If it's NOT legal to post it here...

PM me...not sure about Disboard rules!

See ya'll in Dec!!!

 

[Kimmielee]

After spending the last 3 days together, I can tell you that what Kimmie describes is EXACTLY the way it happens.

Like anything else worthwhile in life....you BOTH have to want to work Hard for it....and continue working forvever.

It CAN be done!!!

See most of ya'll in December and hopefully some more Magic before then!

Congrats!! I'm so glad that your time with your Disney Prince went so well!

 

[Cheshire Figment]

Hi Ya'll!!!

Just for thrills...Who all is planning on the Dec 10 EMH MK meet???

(Flagpole at mouth of Main St after Wishes)

Trying to get a rough idea of a count...

I am, but I need a room key from someone so I can get a wristband.

 

[GoofyDude]

Just for thrills...Who all is planning on the Dec 10 EMH MK meet???

(Flagpole at mouth of Main St after Wishes)

Trying to get a rough idea of a count...

See ya'll in Dec!!!

I'll be there... just waiting on that Ding! fare. Have the room/ticket already booked!

Kevin

 

[Goofy4Disney!]

(someone needs to tell me what the hey a "Ding" is....honestly...I'm feeling more and more blonde by the minute.

 

[Kimmielee]

It's the fare specials that come out from Southwest Airlines. You have to download their software - then it will alert you when specials or "dings" are available!

 

[Goofy4Disney!]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, thanks Kimmie!!!

Too bad stinkin' Southwest doesn't fly outta Logan!

 

[vital]

I'd rather walk than fly Southwest.

I'm jealous all of y'all are getting to meet! Maybe one day I'll be able to go!

 

[DisneydaveCT]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, thanks Kimmie!!!

Too bad stinkin' Southwest doesn't fly outta Logan!

Goofy, SW does fly out of Manchester, NH. And I have Manchester on my Ding profile, so I do see some pretty low rates to Orlando from Manchester from time to time.

 

[DisneydaveCT]

Check-out the post counter. We are fast approaching #3000.

 

[katydidbug1]

Weren't you number 2000????

Check-out the post counter. We are fast approaching #3000.