I don't consider myself easily offended, and in fact get weary of all the people who ARE "offended" by every little thing, but I still look at that picture of Tic Toc in the parade and think, "Ehhh...not good right now." I don't know how to explain it, but in my gut it seems a bit off-putting to see a huge cartoon crocodile rolling down Main Street for everyone's entertainment right now. I understand the logical arguments for keeping him included, but it doesn't change my emotional reaction to seeing a big cartoon crocodile with a toothy grin being a focal point in a parade just across the lagoon from where a child was killed by an alligator. It just doesn't set well with me for whatever reason, and I doubt I'm alone. And like I said, I don't get "offended" easily at all.
Not mentioning the crocodiles on the Kilimanjaro Safari is just foolish though.
As for comparing the alligator attack to car wrecks, drowning, etc., the major difference is, of course, that people (including young children) get killed from car wrecks and drowning much more frequently. It's something we are all aware of and while tragic, we're used to it. Fatal alligator attacks are much more rare in general than car wrecks or drownings, and unprecedented at Walt Disney World. This is something Disney has never had to deal with. And it is different when it's a drowning or vehicle accident (be it bus, monorail, or car) versus a wild animal purposely snatching a child and dragging it to its death. It's different because it creates a stronger emotional response in us. Had this child been hit by a car or had he drowned in a resort or water park pool, people would still feel terrible, but there wouldn't be the fear and shock that come along with the alligator attack. It produces a completely different emotional response in us, and Disney is in the business of creating and shaping our emotional responses to things while we're on vacation there. This is why they're removing Tic Toc from the parade and Louis from the castle show, IMO. Because they realize the heightened emotional reaction of the public to the gator attack vs. drowning, getting hit by a bus, or a vehicle wreck.