John made split pea soup,
jambalaya with kielbasa, shrimp and mushrooms,
and chili today.
He also backed out of our trip today
He is going to help his mom move from SC to NJ instead of going on vacation.
Our trip is now a mother, son trip.
John's Mom is going to live with us for now. She can use Dad's room while he is in FL. He will be back in Mar/Apr and she knows she has to be out by then.
Cally. John and I have had to deal with his parents splitting up for a few years now. It's not easy. We've vowed to be honest. My MIL (Ilse) knows I will not bump Dad out of my house for her. She knows she is welcome to use the space for a while but is not welcome to really stay. Our allegiance is only with Dad cause Mom ran away and left Dad standing there with nowhere to go. We took Dad in. Mom moved away.
Mom is complaining noone visits her. Hello! You're 12 hours away!
I am ok with John helping his mom. I am ok with going to FL with just my son. I am ok with whatever decision John makes regarding his parents.