piccolopat
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 25, 2014
OP, you need to sit down and talk to you MIL now so she understands what works for your family now and for the future. My MIL lived with us and absolutely loved buying things for our DD (she raised two sons and never had a daughter of her own). Unfortunately she didn't really have any idea of what a child should wear and DD didn't want to make her feel bad even though she was being teased at school. I didn't always see what she bought until I got home from work and saw what she had DD wear to school but when I found out I had to step in. I wasn't going to have DD teased at school just because she was trying to be nice to her grandmother by wearing things she bought for her. Want examples? One time she "heard" that Velcro sneakers were in style and bought her a pair of Dr. Scholl's. Another time she bought a baby blue polyester suit (skirt and jacket) from Goodwill that was probably something an older woman wore in the 70s (DD went to Elementary school in the 90s). Needless to say, a lot of those purchases ended up at Goodwill.