I don't know what you can do to make it special. You are in a crowd of 2500 of your soon-to-be closest friends waving streamers, sort of dancing, etc. We've had some special moments, but the characters don't do those things any more....once Minnie grabbed DD's hand and they started a congo line around the ship...another time, Dale grabbed her and pulled her up on stage. Both of these were years ago, and I haven't seen anything like that happen to anyone recently. It only lasts 15-20 minutes.....from the time it really gets going.