Day 2: Magic Kingdom - Park hours: 9:00am-10:00pm
We are aiming to be there for rope drop, so I'd like to be there no later than 8:30.
I plan to get up and shower at 6:30 and let Dillon "sleep in" until 7. I'd like to be down at the cafeteria by 7:30 for a quick breakfast and out at the bus stop by 8:00. I already feel like I am going to be rushing Dillon around on the first day, and I feel bad, but I really don't want to miss rope drop. After rope drop we can slow down a little (maybe).
Our first ride plans to be Space Mountain. It's a tradition at Disneyland, and we are going to keep it here! We hope to grab Fast Passes and then do stand-by, depending on the wait times.
After this I'd like to do the Stitch ride. Yes, I've heard the bad reviews, but I am gonna do it anyway! 
We have a lunch reservation at 12:20 for Liberty Tree Tavern, so I hope to get a few more rides in or take a wander down Mainstreet before hand.
The only other plans I have for the day is to see The Mainstreet Electrical Parade and Wishes. Will be finding a spot for those around 7:30pm.
But other things I'd like to see and do while in MK are:
-Splash Mountain
-Haunted Mansion
-People Mover
-Pirates of the Caribbean
-Buzz Lightyear
-Meet Stitch in Tomorrowland (hopefully)
-Try Corn Dog Nuggets (are these a CS meal or a snack?)
I feel like I am missing some more, but not sure. Any other must-dos?
We hope to catch MK on 2 other evenings to take advantage of EMH as I feel this one day is not nearly enough time.
Some advice?
If you truly want to make rope drop and esp if you want to be in the front of the pack, leaving at 8am "may" not get you there. Personally, I would bump up your times by at least 15 minutes, so you are going to the bus stop at 7:45am...remember you could wait 20 minutes for a bus, if you just missed it, so only going at 8am for the bus, means 8:20am for it to arrive, 5 minutes to load, travel time, unload, walk to entrance, etc.
I also understand though that you will have a tiring day before, so personally, if you are a few minutes late for RD, it won't matter. Now if you are an hour late, that will make a difference in your touring time.
Yes, MK is at least a two day park.
Another suggestion -- definitely ride (well, see the show) Stitch as that is your fav character, but don't do it prior to 11:30am. I'd wait until the afternoon or even the evening. There is hardly ever a big line as no family with little kids will go on it and most adults don't like it. They take a crowd of people in at one time, so the line may look long but they all go in together.
My DD6 wants to do Stitch for her first time in July. I've already warned her it is pitch black and they strap you in like in a roller coaster ...but I also think it is fun, too, esp when "all terror breaks loose!"
I know you're doing a few days at MK but here is a general plan:
Early Morning Rides/Characters (or get FP)
Space Mtn
Splash Mtn
Peter Pan
Jungle Cruise
new Dumbo
new Goofini Coaster
Speedway (very slow loading)
Astro Orbiter (very slow loading)
Rapunzel
Tiana
Merida (I'm not sure if she is out when you are there but if so that line will be wild since she is the newest princess)
Next Set of Rides/Characters
Buzz Lightyear
Haunted Mansion
Pirates of the Caribbean
Ariel
Jasmine
Stitch/Buzz Lightyear characters
Stuff you can practically do anytime
PeopleMover
Carousel of Progress
Mickey's Philharmagic
IASW
Town Square Theater (Mickey and Princesses)
Swiss Family Treehouse
Tiki Birds
Aladdin's Magic Carpets
Railroad
Tom Sawyer Island
Country Bear Jamboree
Hall of Presidents
Riverboat
Carrousel
Tea Cups
Monsters Inc
Rides you should never do
WtP



(Ok, it's cute...and the interactive area is fun, too...just use sanitizer if you touch anything in there)
Sounds good so far
I would recommend Carousel of Progress, Jungle Cruise, Mickey's Philharmagic Show and Monsters Inc Show.
Yep!