Wedding Shower Help Needed .. Couples shower or not?!?!

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Thanks....
some more GREAT ideas!
AND....if i do have a couples shower, it won't be labeled a shower...
will go with the "pre-wedding party" name for it-unless I can come up with some other witty name... Would just need to find "fitting" invitations.

I left a message for my brother to call me so we will see what he says.

I am loving some of the great ideas!
THANKS a TON! If you have any more ideas or advice...please share!