cabanafrau
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- May 10, 2006
I am sitting here guessing that the above question, and the answer to it, wouldn't reveal anything....
Because, she would be totally happy and fine with her sons having a young girl be dependent and submissive.
Any cost would not matter, at all.
The question should be, as mentioned... Would she have considered it a good idea for her young son(s) to give up their independence, and to move in with and be dependent on an older girlfriend. One who told him he shouldn't be spending time with his family, spending gas money, etc...
This older girlfriend "Has decided that she does not like DD."
And, to quote the OP, again: The girlfriend/fiance is known to be "mentally abusive part of which was cutting ex-boyfriend off from friends and family".
And, another kicker would be.... The older girlfriend's mother being constantly there, over-involved, in her son's personal life.... etc...
I think it's kind of unfair to presume to speak for OP. I also asked the question because I do think an honest answer will be informative for her. I did not ask it because I'm looking for an answer here.