Travel shaming. Are you limiting your social media posts?

We traveled to WDW when they reopened last month. I have yet to post pictures. I have too many friends and family who would shame me for traveling. Especially since their counties/states are on lockdown.

We have a piece of camping property about an hour away so we go there quite often. I have no problem posting those pictures as we’re still close to home. most aren’t envious of camping, even in a trailer.
 
I limit my social media posts anyway, but I didn't share my recent WDW trip with anyone except my family and bff who lives in Orlando and we met for dinner at DS. I read firsthand on here when another poster mentioned his upcoming WDW trip and got shamed on the Community Boards. I didn't feel the need to defend myself on a forum or social media. I made sure my plans were carefully thought out with safety of my family and others in mind. I didn't come back home and resume normalcy. I care about not putting anyone else at risk.

To the people on here who want to shame and call me selfish -- to this I say a few things.

1. We flew to Florida. You cannot get mad at me there because we have airline crew in our house that has continued to fly all over our nation and a few international spots recently. We personally made the choice in June to resume normalcy in our home and not quarantine in the basement. We continue to not visit with our family members and friends who are at high risk.

2. We wear our masks, and we wear them correctly. We adhered to all the social distancing protocols. I sanitized our room and opted out of housekeeping. Everyone at the BWV complied with elevator rules. Sometimes the wait was long, but it kept us all safe.

As like PP mentioned, WDW did it right. I loved the hand washing stations that are available throughout the parks. (I prefer that over the hand sanitizers that honestly are literally everywhere.) Were there times I felt it was a little too crowded? Yes. But we quickly remedied our situation and left. And really it was only once at HS on 8/7 at opening on the main drag. Were there times other people weren't adhering to the rules? Yes, but it was not frequent. CM's are quick to make sure mask rules are being followed and lines are socially distanced. Occasionally I'd see someone pull their mask down for a few seconds to get a breath of fresh air in the hot, humid weather. It was always at a distance, never purposefully done in close range.

3. Once we returned home we quarantined and didn't go ANYWHERE or see ANYONE until we received our Covid test results. I made sure we had plenty of pantry staples and frozen meat so we would have food when we got back.

4. I made appointments for Covid tests (they are free to anyone in my area for any reason) and waited to get negative results before resuming any normal activities such as going to the grocery store - with a mask, which is mandatory.

Overall, it was a different experience at WDW but a much needed escape my family needed. No news was consumed, only phone usage was to check wait times at the parks. Such a boost for our morale.

I respect Covid and what it can do. I also want to safely get back out in society. Judge if you want, but it is too late now. Already home, tested, and Covid free from the trip. If I contract Covid now, it now it is from day to day life not from traveling.
 
We have a trip to WDW planned for this coming January. I'm not sorry about it. I don't care if people want to shame me about it. If they shame me on my personal social media, well, then they get put in my social media time out for awhile. Virtue signalers elsewhere can go complain about it with somebody else instead. The past year + have been challenging for our family. I've dealt with frickin' breast cancer and getting a double mastectomy last summer. This summer we had fun plans to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. That got cancelled, of course, for obvious reasons. I'm totally stressed out about work. DH is stressed out about his work. My MIL is a narcissistic needy person who thinks that the world revolves around her. And then there's trying to balance telecommuting full time while also being the urgent on demand school tech support here at home for my 2 kids, too.

Stick a fork in me because I'm done. I'm stressed out and I need a little break. A 6 day break in which we're going to go to one of our happy places. Where DH (hopefully, if it's done with refurbs by then) can go on the Peoplemover again. Where we can reminisce the days when we were kids and Disneyland still had Country Bear Jamboree and the Carousel of Progress....we're super excited about doing all of that "boring" stuff at WDW.

Anyone who doesn't like it is welcome to unfriend or unfollow me. Individuals on message boards who don't like it can put me on their ignore list.
 

Fantastic and varied responses!
Our plan is to get a Covid test before we leave Orlando, then again after being home for 2 weeks.
I wonder how many people who aren't mandated to do it will quarantine when they get home. I can probably do it but I don't know that my daughter could get the time off of work.
 
Not that I'm shaming anyone for going but I don't understand why any one would want to travel to a hot spot. While it may you may be safe at Disney you still have to travel to get there. Why not take a vacation near home.
 
We've had six deaths and five funerals since March. No one died of or with COVID. Zero people contracted the virus. No...the funerals were NOT outdoors. Two no masks...three required masks. Two involved gatherings before and after the funerals. One limited guests to under 25 at a time the others less than 75.

We work, vacation, go to church, restaurants, hair/ nail salons, doctors, dentist AND the beach. Also, wash our hands, social distance and wear masks when required.

So far...precautions have worked.
Doctors and Dentists are allowed here. Everything else is and has been forbidden. Contract tracing has found funerals where they are allowed to be a huge problem spot for covid-19 transmission.
 
Not that I'm shaming anyone for going but I don't understand why any one would want to travel to a hot spot. While it may you may be safe at Disney you still have to travel to get there. Why not take a vacation near home.

If you read my reply you'll understand why we traveled to get there - airline industry people already. We felt our airline was taking the necessary safety precautions.

Vacations near our home are mostly camping based. We aren't campers.
 
I've never shamed anyone for their vacation posts, in fact i always hit "like" on them. That said, the posts make me very, very sad. I wish we were in the position to leave to the house to go anywhere, much less a vacation. Those of us with high risk family members are not "jealous" as someone posted on page one. We are sad. Profoundly, unrelentingly sad. I just want to be able to go anywhere with my family. But because the whole country refuses to hit pause, we will be stuck in this house for god knows how long.
 
Not that I'm shaming anyone for going but I don't understand why any one would want to travel to a hot spot. While it may you may be safe at Disney you still have to travel to get there. Why not take a vacation near home.

In my case, I went from Texas to Florida. So one hot spot to another. I would have been at the same risk if I vacationed at home. BTW, I tested negative before we left and 2 weeks after we returned.
 
Doctors and Dentists are allowed here. Everything else is and has been forbidden. Contract tracing has found funerals where they are allowed to be a huge problem spot for covid-19 transmission.
Not forbidden here.
 
But because the whole country refuses to hit pause, we will be stuck in this house for god knows how long.
I think we'd be like that anyways. I know a lot of people frame it like "people are the reason we can't do this or that" but reality is...many places aren't doing it that way. Meaning you see how people get very very alarmed at schools, gets alarmed at this and that. You'd have to have the entire country be at virtually nil in cases AND stay that way for people to ease up on that. People are spreading it no doubt and people may be spreading it unnecessarily at times. But the virus is not going to just go away. No pause is going to do that. It wasn't going to do that back when stay at home orders were in place and it's not going to do that now. The virus is still here and by here I mean globally I don't mean just the US. I say it this way because you say "refuse to hit pause"..countries have hit pause and it comes back..has several times.
 
I've never shamed anyone for their vacation posts, in fact i always hit "like" on them. That said, the posts make me very, very sad. I wish we were in the position to leave to the house to go anywhere, much less a vacation. Those of us with high risk family members are not "jealous" as someone posted on page one. We are sad. Profoundly, unrelentingly sad. I just want to be able to go anywhere with my family. But because the whole country refuses to hit pause, we will be stuck in this house for god knows how long.

I understand why you are sad. And I am sorry. It stinks, no nice way to put it.

The thing I am not understanding clearly is your last sentence. Are you wanting the country to go in total lockdown?
 
I think we'd be like that anyways. I know a lot of people frame it like "people are the reason we can't do this or that" but reality is...many places aren't doing it that way. Meaning you see how people get very very alarmed at schools, gets alarmed at this and that. You'd have to have the entire country be at virtually nil in cases AND stay that way for people to ease up on that. People are spreading it no doubt and people may be spreading it unnecessarily at times. But the virus is not going to just go away. No pause is going to do that. It wasn't going to do that back when stay at home orders were in place and it's not going to do that now. The virus is still here and by here I mean globally I don't mean just the US.

The US is doing horribly compared to everyone else, but that's another thread altogether.

Just sharing my personal view as someone who can't leave the house for medical reasons. People seem to forget about families like ours when they are out and about living their lives.
 
Not that I'm shaming anyone for going but I don't understand why any one would want to travel to a hot spot. While it may you may be safe at Disney you still have to travel to get there. Why not take a vacation near home.

Possibly because "near home" often doesn't feel like a vacation. Depending on where you live, you might have to travel quite a distance to get to anything that doesn't look like home. With the stay-at-home orders that started back in March in some areas, many of us have had lots of time at home. In my state, we had a bad COVID surge in the spring, but parks and nature preserves remained open, even while just about everything else shut down. We were hiking and biking within driving distance of our home for months because it was really the only available amusement. We've found a lot fo great walks we never knew existed, but the truth is that with three kids home all day for the last five months, the prospect of a staycation has lost its appeal. I proposed renting an AirBnB up in northern New England, and bringing the bikes and the dogs, but DH vetoed that, saying we have a house in the woods with bikes and a dog right here - going to a place that looks like home isn't a vacation.

We traveled to a "hot spot" in July, partly because we had booked a non-refundable trip prior to it becoming a hot spot, partially because we were going to see family there, but mostly because we believed we could take steps to mitigate our risk. The flight was sparsely populated, and everyone wore masks. We immediately went to our rental car, got groceries, and went to the ferry, where the ferries were capping ridership at 75 people (so we waited 2 hours for a ferry). From there, we stayed in our rental house for a week where we were joined by the family members we'd gone to see, and who had been social distancing in their house prior to our arrival. That week, we went to the beach where it was easy to stay a good distance from others. We rode bikes, toured the island on golf carts, and took nature walks. We did not interact with anyone outside our family. We didn't do any tours or group activities. We didn't go to the pools. We didn't eat in a restaurant. When we traveled home on the plane, we wore our n95 masks, and everyone around us remained masked for the whole flight. We all tested negative for COVID on our return.

Would I go to Disney or Universal right now? Nope. I had Universal booked for next week, but decided against going when Florida's numbers surged and our governor mandated a quarantine. We planned to move the trip to Washington state, but then WA's virus rates went up, and that state was added to the list. Then we planned a trip to St John, and had everything set, until this Tuesday when the US Virgin Islands were added to the quarantine list. Fortunately, we only lost the $250 service fee for the rental. Now we're scrambling to find something in a "green" state, both for our own health and because we don't have two weeks to quarantine before school starts. DH's anxiety is high regarding hotel stays and cities/crowds, so we're going to make it a shorter trip than originally planned. We'll figure something out, but it's hard trying to find fun activities close to home that we haven't already done.
 
The US is doing horribly compared to everyone else, but that's another thread altogether.

Just sharing my personal view as someone who can't leave the house for medical reasons. People seem to forget about families like ours when they are out and about living their lives.
I was talking about globally though. Australia, New Zealand, Germany, Spain (can't remember for sure) Japan, Hong Kong, Vietnam, etc. they've all experienced issues with the virus coming back and those countries have had 'pauses' as you call it and much stricter guidelines than the U.S.

No one defends the U.S. it doesn't need defending so I'm not diverting the topic to that because that's where people inevitable go even though that's not what is being discussed. I'm just responding to your comment that we refuse to hit pause and that's the reason you can't go out.

I'm saying countries who have hit pause still haven't been successful in the virus not being a threat..because it's still there and it's not because we won't hit pause. If that were the case these other countries who have hit pause, who continue to hit pause when needed, wouldn't ever see a resurgence in cases.

At this point for us to all be able to travel without concern it will take a global immunity level with the vaccine or for it to die off. The vaccine seems the more likely route and that will take years even just on a national level for enough of our population to get it. I guess maybe you can explain then what you mean by if we hit pause so you wouldn't be stuck in your house forever.
 



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