TOTAL JERK in the Contemporary

irunnoft

I'm What Willis Was Talkin' 'Bout!!!!
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So this sat and churned in my stomach like an acid bomb all day yesterday. When I deal with people out in the public, I am a personable kind of guy. I talk to people and try to treat them as people - not as a means to an end. Yesterday, my family was getting ready to leave the World and return home. I was looking at a 10.5 hr. trip and I decided it would be a great treat to stop off at the Contemporary and get some tea from the Contemporary Grounds to take on the road. I ordered two tea lattes and struck up a conversation with the barista working the counter. She was a very nice young lady from Puerto Rico. I wish I could remember her name, but while she was making the teas, she and I carried on a conversation. Mind you, she was working the entire time. We were having a very pleasant conversation when all of a sudden, the one person waiting behind me just rudely blurts out "Can you guys cut the chatter? I'm in a hurry!" I turn around to look at this person in utter disbelief at what I'd just heard! There was a fairly tall older guy and a kid (who was kind of hiding behind him - couldn't tell if it was his son or daughter, but the kid was about 11 years old). He then glares at me and says "Maybe she could focus if you weren't talking to her!" I said "Hey man, I've got a 10.5 hour drive. . ." couldn't finish the sentence before Jerk says "I really don't care!" and I said "that's obvious." He then says "I just need to get a shot of espresso!" The young woman was obviously flustered by this. I didn't say anything when she stopped making my drinks (HELLO.... I actually WAS in line there!) and made his shot. The ONLY reason I didn't tell him to shut his trap and wait his turn was because I was afraid he would totally ream that CM out for no reason. I thought it would just be best for the Jerk to get his joe and go. So she served him and he was still a complete tool about it. He continued "Maybe I need to get a manager over here to explain it to you!" I'm not sure if he was talking to me or not, but I think he was talking to the young lady. It was the only non-magical event during my birthday weekend. What a great lesson he taught his son. I'm sure this idiot was in a hurry to get to a park, but that was his fault for not getting his coffee earlier. After all, I was in a hurry to get my teas and hit the road for a day full of driving. I didn't act like a jerk to the guy that was in front of me. I waited my turn in line. Anyhow, he certainly didn't know how to treat a young lady, let alone a person who was serving him. Maybe I was in the wrong and I just don't see it, but I never treat servers or people in a public position such as that as a simple means to an end. It took a lot of grace not to punch that guy in his pompous face, cuss him out or, more realistically, continue to argue with the idiot. But, man did that burn me up for most of the ride home. I resigned that I would shine the light on the big Jerk here on the Dis. I'm positive this guy wouldn't be a Dis'er but I considered this cathartic.
 
What a wonderful example to his child. LOL. I bet he gets mad at his kid for being rude back to himeven though that is the example he is giving him. It is a shame some people have to go thru life being miserable and trying to make everyone around them miserable too. I guess he forgot he was in the Happiest Place on Earth. Hope you had a safe drive home.
 
While there are many wonderful people at the world, it sure seems like the losers stand out in a place like this. I hate rude people, and it seems sad to know that that child will probably grow up to be like his dad. Here's hoping that Karma really works.
 
:sad2: The real sad thing here is that he acted this way in front of his child. If this is the way he acts out in public, can you imagine what this child sees at home!!!!:scared1:
 

He probably just got his bill from staying at the Contemporary.

Some people are just pissed off, pitiful human beings. He just happened to take it out on you. Don't let the jerk get to you---he's not worth it.
 
People eventually get what's coming to them. His will probably be when he gets treated in the exact same disrespectful way by his child when he/she hits around 15. Be comforted by that thought and Happy Belated B-Day!
 
In the Old West people were more polite because they may have to pay for their rudeness in a gun fight.....sometimes........
 
What a jerk! I would have been angry too. Some people can be so rude. :sad2:
 
Don't let it get to you. He's not worth it.

A lady at the grocery store literally yelled at me a couple weeks ago because because she THOUGHT I had over 12 items in my cart and I was in the Express lane. She made a huge scene and embarrased herself, because, in fact I had exactly 12 items. I left the store and didn't waste another second thinking the miserable woman until just now.
 
Well done for keeping your cool - you're a better person than he'll ever be.
Really feel for you and the server after hearing that.
Unfortunately some people really do believe they're the most important person on this planet.
 
Wow I think that guy was really in need of a caffeine fix! I wouldn't take it too hard, he was probably just angry that he couldn't get a decent cup of coffee... But that is no excuse for his actions...
 
Jeez...must be the same guy we ran into at the CR last May. When we arrived for our meal at Chef Mickey's, there was a guy letting the poor CM's there have it because he didn't have a reservation. He was screaming at the top of his lungs about how much he was paying for his room and now he couldn't even get anything to eat!

When the CM took our information and returned to show us to a table about 5 minutes later, he was still at it. He began to shout at us and scream about how he hoped we enjoyed our meal...it didn't matter that his family would be hungry...he was really surprised at the "kind of people" Disney was letting in these days...you name it, he said it. He was just a really nasty person.

After we were seated they finally had to call someone (I don't know if it was a manager or security), but we didn't hear him anymore so I assume he either left or was escorted away.

Sorry about your incident. I hate when people take their petty problems out on innocent people around them.
 
Jeez...must be the same guy we ran into at the CR last May. When we arrived for our meal at Chef Mickey's, there was a guy letting the poor CM's there have it because he didn't have a reservation. He was screaming at the top of his lungs about how much he was paying for his room and now he couldn't even get anything to eat!

When the CM took our information and returned to show us to a table about 5 minutes later, he was still at it. He began to shout at us and scream about how he hoped we enjoyed our meal...it didn't matter that his family would be hungry...he was really surprised at the "kind of people" Disney was letting in these days...you name it, he said it. He was just a really nasty person.

After we were seated they finally had to call someone (I don't know if it was a manager or security), but we didn't hear him anymore so I assume he either left or was escorted away.

Sorry about your incident. I hate when people take their petty problems out on innocent people around them.
That sounds like the same guy some of our friends who live in Orlando encountered at the Grand Floridian. They told us they were having dinner at the Grand Floridian Cafe and there was the guy deamanding to be seated right away because his family was staying there.
 
How sad that people have to act that way in the Happiest Place on Earth. We're there to relax and have fun. He certainly was a jerk and it's too bad that you had to encounter that before a long trip home. Good for you that you didn't loose your cool......you know what they say...what goes around, comes around.
 
Wow, sounds like the guy I ran into at Pop Century a year or so ago. You know how crowded those coffee stations can be there (even if it is just crap Nescafe). I was getting coffee and fixing it up and I was trying to locate sugar, creamer, stir stick, etc. with my daughter standing next to me. The jerk next to me couldn't wait his turn either and reached over my daughter's head and poured coffee into his mug... directly above her head. If my daughter had stepped back, she would have bumped into him and would have been wearing his coffee. I glared at him in disbelief and he said, you're taking too long and I'm sick of waiting. I said, is this coffee really worth scalding a little girl, ruining her vacation and sending her to the ER? He told be me F#%@! Off!

Really nice! :sad2:
 
:confused3 Are people getting ruder and more self-important, or was I just fortunate enough not to run into such people years ago? Honestly the behavior you are describing unbelievable! I really feel for the castmembers who have to deal with such people.
 
Unfortunately some people really do believe they're the most important person on this planet.

Amen! They are everywhere but I agree they stick out more when you are on vacation and most people are having a good time and not sweating all the piddly stuff.

:confused3 Are people getting ruder and more self-important, or was I just fortunate enough not to run into such people years ago? Honestly the behavior you are describing unbelievable! I really feel for the castmembers who have to deal with such people.

I think they are getting ruder! I think that people are very stressed and anxious these days and they take it out on everyone around them. That and with parents like that guy who is going to teacher this new generation manners :sad2:
 












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