Things your parents did to save money

Recently my mom told me that the "beef and steaks" I ate as a child were really deer meat as the real stuff was too expensive.

This reminds me a really funny story ... growing up all my friends would tell me they LOVED steak and I never could figure out what they were talking about ... UNTIL ... the day my mom told me her "steak" was really LIVER. :rotfl2: We couldn't afford steak and she knew we never would eat liver ... To this day I don't mind liver .... but I now LOVE steak!!
 
I started thinking about what I ate as a child.... were you allowed to just grab food from your fridge? Or were your parents really strict about it?

I was allowed to snack on *some* things without permission;

ketchup sandwiches (butter and jam were controlled substances)
cold boiled potatoes (mom always had some in the fridge)
apples (but the rule was, eat the ones with bruises first)

And, did you get to pick your birthday meal? I always requested (and got) KFC and an ice-cream cake. We almost never ate out so it was a huge treat to eat takeout for my birthday supper.

No we were never allowed to just grab food unless it was fruit that was sitting out on the island, anything else we had to ask. In fact i still have the same rule with my own kids, anything healthy is allowed at any time everything else permission needs to be granted.

We got our special birthday dinner too, but always a homecooked meal. I always asked for steak & mushrooms..mmmmm...I still do this tradition with my kids too.
 
boy this thread got me thinking and it also brought back alot of memories. My Aunt was a single mother of 3 and she loved to make Spaghetti..like a pp said it was pretty much watery sauce (possibly ketchup) and noodles. I cannot eat speghetti to this day. But some of it I just do because I cannot stand wasting money on food. It is like throwing money into the toilet. There is NO difference between "dead bread store" bread and the loaf at the grocery store. I LIKE tuna noodle cassarole. I am proud that I can get a good deal on steak and one will feed 2. (besides that is the correct amount to eat for health reasons as well) I water my children juice down because it is the nutritionally correct thing to do...sigh. I hope that my children dont think they were deprived looking back...my son does not get pop except as a very rare treat..not because of the price but because it not good for him. Anyways my point is I LIKE some of the budget stuff! LOL

No I was not allowed to go free for all into the fridge 1. because I gave a whole block of cheese to the neighborhood kids when my mom was a single mom . 2. because when I lived with my grandmother she didnt believe it was proper for anybody but her to do anything (including pour their own milk) in her kitchen.....
 
Did anyone else get to use Wonderbread wrappers held up by elasctic for boots in the winter??:rotfl::rotfl:
My mom used to fuss that we were to hard on the bread wrappers because they only last a few days of walking to school!!

LOL - forgot all about that one.

It's too bad you didn't take better care of those bread bags. Your mom could've put a string on it and called it a kite like ours did. We were very popular at the park!

(LOL - she did that for my kids when they were visiting her a while back and my kids couldn't wait to tell me about the kites they made with grandma's bread bags!)
 

::WOW::...... Some of these stories are sooo funny and some are soooo sad. If you can get past the fact that my birth mother and birth father divorced when I was a baby, and birth mother moved in w/ my parents (her parents), and then left me there at the ripe 'ol age of 10, I had a awesome life! Sure, I didn't have a "traditional" family (who really does :lmao:) but they were awesome. They were a product of the Depression so they knew the value of a dollar but luckily for me they had lot's of 'em by the time I came around. Now my birth mother may have "horror" stories of growing up "with out" but I sure don't. They were careful with money but we had a beautiful, large home in Miami. I had private school, dance classes, and when I told my daddy I wanted a horse he got me one. Vacations every year (to their other home in N.Y. then to 2 weeks to the condo right on Myrtle Beach). We ate out when ever we wanted but "Gamer" was also an awesome cook! No one had to leave at 18, but you did either have to go to school or get a job after H.S.. They paid for my wedding, honeymoon and helped us get our first place. They are the BEST parents a kid could have ever asked for, even if they weren't my birth parents. :woohoo::hug:
 
One big difference between our parents budgets & our budgets today is that our parents didn't have or pay for some of the "must haves" of today.

TV was free. They didn't have a monthly cable bill.
They didn't have an internet bill.
Only 1 landline telephone. No cellphone bills with all the add-ons.
They might have had an answering machine & didn't have to pay monthly for voice mail.
Water bills.
Sewer bills.

One of the biggest budget problems facing people today is we have all gotten ourselves into these monthly bills that we can never get out of because we think we need the service and can't live without it.

Things that used to be free, now have a monthly fee.

I find this the biggest problem for people today compared to our parents generation.
 
Actually we had to pay for cable, but Mom got a job at the cable company so it was FREE! We were the only house in our group with cable! LOL

We did get to eat whatever we wanted as long as it was healthy and not on Mom's "dinner shelf" in the fridge, she had a certain shelf she put dinner stuff on so we didn't eat it. :) We always got our favorite meal on our bdays, sometimes we had the money to go out sometimes we didn't, that was determined beforehand and we picked what we wanted. Mom almost always made our cakes for us but ice cream was usually store bought. We did have an ice cream maker but it took AGES to make ice cream so we splurged on bdays. :) My kids have the same rule, they can eat whatever healthy snack they want, junk food they have to ask for (that includes chips, but crackers are considered healthy) and for bdays we determine beforehand if we can afford to go out, we usually do go out tho. :)
 
One big difference between our parents budgets & our budgets today is that our parents didn't have or pay for some of the "must haves" of today.

TV was free. They didn't have a monthly cable bill.
They didn't have an internet bill.
Only 1 landline telephone. No cellphone bills with all the add-ons.
They might have had an answering machine & didn't have to pay monthly for voice mail.
Water bills.
Sewer bills.

One of the biggest budget problems facing people today is we have all gotten ourselves into these monthly bills that we can never get out of because we think we need the service and can't live without it.

Things that used to be free, now have a monthly free.

I find this the biggest problem for people today compared to our parents generation.

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Growing up we didn't pay for TV, water, sewer, garbage pick-up, ....

Also, we could be in sports in school and it didn't cost very much, and there was an "athletic bus" that would bring everyone home after practice. Now we have huge "athletic fees" to participate in a sport, plus pay for the uniform and then all the driving to practice & games...

Growing up I never would have even considered asking for an allowance! We didn't get money for Birthdays either. "Kids have no need for money." :confused3 So, when I started babysitting, it was awesome!! We give DS10 an allowance in hopes that he can learn to manage money better than we did. :rolleyes1

We we couldn't go into the fridge whenever we wanted, our snacks were bread or toast. Mom made about 14 loaves of bread every week. Oddly enough we thought of "boughten bread" as a treat.
We actually didn't have fruit all the time. If we did it was whatever we had canned in the fall, since fresh fruit was too expensive.
 
One of the biggest budget problems facing people today is we have all gotten ourselves into these monthly bills that we can never get out of because we think we need the service and can't live without it.

Agreed!! We get our "wants" and "needs" confused and "need" to keep up with the neighbors!

We've raised our kids without a tv in the house. The decision was based more on quality of family life rather than cost but when I hear friends say they pay $60 a month or more to watch tv, I saved a ton of money over the years! That right there should justify a trip to Disney!
We constantly have a house full of kids so I guess our kids friends don't mind us not having a tv either. I think my kids actually get a kick out of the strange responses they've gotten from teachers and friends about the tv.

And no, we don't have cell phones and our kids did not have them until they were able to pay for their own "pay as you go" plans.
 
This reminds me a really funny story ... growing up all my friends would tell me they LOVED steak and I never could figure out what they were talking about ... UNTIL ... the day my mom told me her "steak" was really LIVER. :rotfl2: We couldn't afford steak and she knew we never would eat liver ... To this day I don't mind liver .... but I now LOVE steak!!




Too funny! My Mom called liver "VELVET STEAK". My brother and I ate it for years until my Grandad asked for another peice of liver :scared1:

Oh the memories!




Jan
 
I love this thread. I was one of 9 and our aunt lived with us. The company my father worked for (for 19 years) just up and closed its doors taking all the retirement money with it. I never knew. We always had food on the table, clothes on our backs, and a roof over our heads. As an adult I finally realize the pressure my parents must of had at that time. I never knew. I guess we were poor. Good job hiding it mom and dad.
 
There are more habits that I'm glad I learned than those I'd rather forget, thankfully. Most of the frugalities I'd rather leave behind are a product of my broke college/apartment days, not my childhood - powdered milk, ramen noodles, hot dogs, eggs. I have a serious aversion to a lot of cheap foods. But some I do still enjoy, like red beans & rice or baked potato with salsa.
The one thing from my childhood that I would never do with my kids is travel-related - growing up nearly all of our vacations were to visit family, and we stayed with whomever we were visiting. I do take the kids to visit distant family, but that isn't our ONLY travel and we get a hotel room rather than squeezing in with aunts/cousins/whatever. I did enjoy it at the time. My mom's only sister lives in VA Beach, and there are a lot worse places to be stuck going back to every summer. But I want my kids to see more of the world than that, and I want more privacy and freedom of schedule than you get when you stay in someone else's home.

Most of the things my family did to pinch pennies weren't bad at all, though.

My grandmother grew a huge kitchen garden and canned a lot of produce for the winter. My mom never really did the same, but I suppose she really didn't need to, with my grandmother growing and putting up enough for the whole family and half the neighborhood. I've continued that in a big way; I have large gardens that expand a little more every year and am working towards a goal of growing 90% of the produce my family eats (the remaining 10% being things like bananas and citrus that I can't grow here).

They both watered down juice & Kool-aid, and we never even knew it until we started school and had the "full strength" version because Grandma was our daycare. During the summer, it was homemade popsicles made from the same and semi-frozen berries from Grandma's garden.

My mom & grandmother made a lot of my clothes, but it was never a matter of embarassment. My grandmother was such a skilled woman and my mom learned from her that they made clothes that looked as good or better than store-bought, and with the exception of the brand-conscious pre-teen/teen years, I loved that they could do it. So far, my DD seems to be the same way. She was so proud of her Disney customs from our Christmas that she is wearing them all to school to show off this week.

My grandmother had a lot of odd ways of saving money that I assume were because of the era in which she grew up - she saved everything, tin foil, plastic bags, twist ties, you name it. She used a ringer washer until she wasn't physically capable of it any more (sometime in the late 80s she finally bought a washing machine) and line dried the laundry even longer. She'd buy non-perishables on sale in HUGE quantities; it has been almost 20 years since she stopped doing her own shopping, and my kids are still taking pencils and erasers from her stash to school every fall! I giggle every time I see a price tag left on something, because it is usually from Woolworths or Kresges or Chathams or Perrys, all of which have been out of business for many years, and usually has some ridiculous figure on it, like the ten-cent roll of wrapping paper my mom brought to use for Christmas presents this year. I'm not that dedicated - I don't have the space or the clutter-tolerance to really horde good deals - but I do buy on sale and build up a little stash of things so that I'm never running out and paying retail in a pinch.
 
My dad was in construction so there were lean months when money was tight. My mom saved change in a jar (my brother and I loved to be allowed to pour it out and count it). During the slow periods in dad's job that is the money we used to tide us over. Her dad saved change the same way, my brother and I both have change jars (even though he has a 6 figure salary he still saves change) and both my nephews save change. Funny how that gets passed along.


We had koolaid/suntea/water instead of soda. We drank milk with breakfast not juice.

Spagetti, sausage gravy over biscuits (mostly gravy), scrambled eggs and toast, chicken and noodles, beans and cornbread and hot dogs were the majority of meals during lean months. During good months we still stuck to chicken, hamburger or stew meat, and the occasional chuck steak.

We always ate leftovers, we did not through away food...EVER.

Cookies were animal crackers, and candy was a treat not a everyday sort of thing.

Suger cereal was a treat we mostly ate oatmeal/creamofwheat/hot rice instead.

The best though was my mom would stock up on day old twinkies and cupcakes from the outlet and put them in the freezer. She would dole them out as a special treat. We loved them frozen and still eat them that way today. If it was a good month she would stock up on those logs of cookie dough and slice us off a piece at a time.

You know it sounds lean but in truth I grew up for the most part working class and everyone ate that way. Some of it I could do without (I dislike hamburger expecially hamburger helper) but some I still love like sausage gravy or frozen snack cakes or saving my change to pad my savings account.
 
I also agree that so many kids have no respect for their parents. They expect to have the latest gagets, clothes, cars, etc while having done nothing to earn any of it. ...but it is their parents who have taught them this and their parents before them... Each succeeding generation wants a better life; but, at what cost? :confused3

I think the real question is whether or not all those things really make life better. We've found it to be just the opposite, that the gadgets, clothes, cars, etc. weren't worth the time spent earning them, and that the constant connectivity of our cell/laptop/smartphone era is a stressor that really gets in the way of relaxation and family time.
 
My mom was the only stay at home mom in our neighborhood! We never knew we were poor! We always got what we needed when we needed it! I remember my Dad would help friends with whatever project they had going, and they would always help him in return! My first bike was the perfect example of human kindness... My neighbors kids were all teens and they traded my moms old broken down bike for one of theirs. I was so excited to be getting a bike even though it was old and rusty, as a surprise they had it repainted and a new seat put on it! I was the happiest kid in the world.
 
My mother was a single mom with no help from our dad. She worked as a hair dresser. It was my sister my mom and I. we used to get the "gift baskets" from church. but we knew why. We would get a turkey box for thanksgiving from church. But what she did to keep from buying food was make refrigerator soup. She would boil water put everything that was still good from the fridge and stick it in the pot. It would be from mac and cheese noodles to chicken or what ever roast we had that week. Corn and peas potatoes and the to top it off Ketchup for color. And then she would bake corn bread. and we would eat off that for days:crazy2: She did what she could and we never went hungry.
 
We were never allowed to eat between meals. We got a snack at three o'clock. It was usually a popsicle home made from frozen Tang but sometimes we got a real one. We always had jello (remember jello 1-2-3?) or pudding for dessert but it was always too thin because it had extra water or milk to stretch it.
We never, ever ate out. We did go on vacations (usually a lake cottage) and Mom would buy an extra can of whatever was on sale and put it in a box in the pantry and we took our own food along. Even when we went to WDW our groceries travelled all the way with us from Indiana to Florida.

Man. I am feeling really spoiled and wasteful.

:thumbsup2:thumbsup2:thumbsup2 I Love Jello 1 2 3.........loved that stuff. Thanks for reminding me. :goodvibes
 
One of my Mom's specialites:

One box of Kraft dinner with a can of stewed tomatoes. It stretched enough that it was supper for four of us.

For years I remember my parents using a machine to roll their own cigarettes.

I had older cousins who used to pass down their clothes to me.

My two cousins had been flower girls at an Aunts Wedding. I ended up with the dresses. So, for about four years, I wore the same dress (actually two different sizes). I also used to get their tunics to wear to school. I always wanted one with a v-neck and no pleats. I always ended up with the ones with the box pleats. I wasn't skinny and the uniforms certainly didn't help.

One year I remember my mom made a whole bunch of shorts for me to wear. One pair was white with big blue (different shades) polka dots all over.

Those were the days...............::rolleyes1




Jan
 
Way back in the fall of 1967 my dad an uncle went to a flea market one of the 1st flea markets in our areaDad bought a roll of wrapping paper as my parents called it but it's actually cellophane more like easter baskets are wrapped in.

The stuff was shinny blue with flicks an streaks of green on 1 side an blue with silver on the other side. This became my mothers wrapping paper for all occassions very very rarely has she used any other wrapping paper since.

To top this off as kids we had to pull the tape off the wrapping so mom could reuse it again next year an the next an well sometimes I think she used same wrapping many many yrs.

Which is really funny because we still can not tell that the roll of wrapping stuff is any smaller than it was in 1967.

I think dad paid less than 5.00 for the roll they won't be running out in their life time.

I don't remember ever actually being poor as a kid but my parents were very frugal by nature both had grown up poor Winter time we ate beans an cornbread on Saturdays or something simuliar not because it was cheap but because we all lied them it was something very easy mom could cook an have hot whenever each one got in to eat cause many times we was not all there at same time.

Mom LOVED to sew an made almost all of our clothes including my panties, pants, shirts, dresses an coats, along with mens suits....she recovered most of our furniture at sometime or another, recovered car seats...made or curtains an drapes for house.

1 Sunday in the early 70's we went shopping did not often go shoppin on Sunday it just was not right that stores was open on the sabbath... We was at kmart mom an I got seperated in store I went looking for her at material more often than not mom would be there that day she was not but I noticed all material was 36 cents a yard that day.

I went found mom asked her WHY she was not at the material she said I NOT BUYING material today! I sad MOM It is 36 cents a yard today.....I have never seen a grown woman run so fast in a store in my life!!! I think this was the day I found out my daddy liked shopping for material as much as mom did by the time we left the store loaded up the car a (1967 chrysler newport not small by any means!) the trunk was so full dad had trouble shutting trunk back seat was almost full I was sitting on material bent over so head would not bang on top of car if we hit a bump.

That day my mother thought she had wasted to much money bought to much she did not need but some time or another she has found a use for all that material.....many times over it has saved her from having to go out buy more NO idea how much that material saved her over the years.....
 
I was born in 1964 and I do remember that my parents made me wear undershirts in the winter under my clothes. Me a girl wearing undershirts! We also had to wear socks on our feet in the winter time because with bare feet you would catch cold and then it's a doctor's bill


Me too! Must have worked because I only recall going to the doctor's office twice in my childhood and that was for serious illness!

Now this makes me laugh because I'm 28 yrs old and grew up in a reasonably well off household. But my parents were soooooo frugal with heat and A/C and in winter, every day, we would be asked if we were wearing undershirts. To this day, when I see my dad in winter, he barks "what do have on under there?" (my shirt or sweater) and sometimes wants to actually see my waist to make sure i'm telling the truth! My sister and I as kids would sometimes say we were wearing them but really weren't.
 


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